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Started by Steve Reason, August 25, 2007, 08:15:06 PM

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Guardian85

Quote from: Budhorse4 on October 15, 2015, 06:16:51 PM
Quote from: Firebird on October 15, 2015, 05:57:53 PM
Quote from: Budhorse4 on October 15, 2015, 04:59:48 PM
Considering that he posted on the university's public forum that I was a bitch who led him on I honestly thought that I wouldn't have to deal with this shit.

Yikes, true. This guy definitely has some issues, might be best to just limit contact as much as possible. Is he getting blowback from the posting, at least?

Lol no. In fact there were an alarming number of people agreeing with him. Because you know, if I don't immediately have sex with him after one coffee date I'm an insufferable bitch. That's why I'm confused and a little afraid because why would he leave a stuffed animal and a poem outside my door if he thinks I'm so terrible? I've been hangout in the library between classes because I'm honestly a little scared go back to my apartment.
Tell him to f*** off or you will turn your crazy friends loose on him.  ;)


"If scientist means 'not the dumbest motherfucker in the room,' I guess I'm a scientist, then."
-Unknown Smartass-

Magdalena

Quote from: Guardian85 on October 16, 2015, 02:12:07 AM
Tell him to f*** off or you will turn your crazy friends loose on him.  ;)
I'm in.  ;)

"I've had several "spiritual" or numinous experiences over the years, but never felt that they were the product of anything but the workings of my own mind in reaction to the universe." ~Recusant

Sandra Craft

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Quote from: Budhorse4 on October 15, 2015, 06:16:51 PM
why would he leave a stuffed animal and a poem outside my door if he thinks I'm so terrible?

Coming late to the drama a second time.  The creep really did show his true colors fast, didn't he?  I agree with the reporting him.  Also, tho I'm not sure returning the owl would do anything more than continue to encourage him, if it does go back I vote for a version of the above for the note.  But don't phrase it as a question in case it makes him think you actually want an answer.
Sandy

  

"Life is short, and it is up to you to make it sweet."  Sarah Louise Delany

OldGit

Buddy, I agree with Tank: if this man is making you nervous then it's beginning to get serious.  I think you need to have a word with somebody.

Asmodean Prime

Quote from: Guardian85 on October 16, 2015, 02:12:07 AM
Tell him to f*** off or you will turn your crazy friends loose on him.  ;)
If only that actually ever worked...

First, turn someone loose on him. THEN threaten with a follow-up. That there, it has a chance of working, at least.

Guardian85

Quote from: Budhorse4 on October 15, 2015, 06:16:51 PM
why would he leave a stuffed animal and a poem outside my door if he thinks I'm so terrible?


I read that as "stuffed animal and porn".

Damn my brain on sleep deprivation. ;D



"If scientist means 'not the dumbest motherfucker in the room,' I guess I'm a scientist, then."
-Unknown Smartass-

Buddy

Quote from: Guardian85 on October 16, 2015, 11:34:06 AM
Quote from: Budhorse4 on October 15, 2015, 06:16:51 PM
why would he leave a stuffed animal and a poem outside my door if he thinks I'm so terrible?


I read that as "stuffed animal and porn".

Damn my brain on sleep deprivation. ;D

Lol! Well I'm on break from school until Wednesday so I am home now. Cutting off contact seems to be working at the moment.
Strange but not a stranger<br /><br />I love my car more than I love most people.

Crow

Welcome to Uni Buddy. This won't be the last arsehole you meet especially as you are going to be meeting a lot of young men who a generally inexperienced with women, plus alcohol (assuming it is easy for the under-age to a get it in the US) doesn't make the best of mixes. Watched it time and time again in my uni days. The guy is obviously inexperienced, most likely a virgin and trying to act big around his peers. Just ignore the fella and don't talk shit about him to other friends as it will get back to him and he will find another girl to place his affections on and leave you well alone.
Retired member.

Claireliontamer

I thought I'd got better at managing the lowest of my moods but this week is proving otherwise.

Magdalena

Quote from: Claireliontamer on October 16, 2015, 11:28:54 PM
I thought I'd got better at managing the lowest of my moods but this week is proving otherwise.
When you learn how to manage the lowest of your moods, let me know how it's done.  ;)

"I've had several "spiritual" or numinous experiences over the years, but never felt that they were the product of anything but the workings of my own mind in reaction to the universe." ~Recusant

Sandra Craft

Quote from: Claireliontamer on October 16, 2015, 11:28:54 PM
I thought I'd got better at managing the lowest of my moods but this week is proving otherwise.

Bad week or bad mood?
Sandy

  

"Life is short, and it is up to you to make it sweet."  Sarah Louise Delany

Tank

Quote from: Claireliontamer on October 16, 2015, 11:28:54 PM
I thought I'd got better at managing the lowest of my moods but this week is proving otherwise.
Sorry to hear this.
If religions were TV channels atheism is turning the TV off.
"Religion is a culture of faith; science is a culture of doubt." ― Richard P. Feynman
'It is said that your life flashes before your eyes just before you die. That is true, it's called Life.' - Terry Pratchett
Remember, your inability to grasp science is not a valid argument against it.

Claireliontamer

Quote from: BooksCatsEtc on October 17, 2015, 04:28:35 AM
Quote from: Claireliontamer on October 16, 2015, 11:28:54 PM
I thought I'd got better at managing the lowest of my moods but this week is proving otherwise.

Bad week or bad mood?

Just really down at the moment.  Like I say, I thought I'd manage to get on top of it.  I guess moving house, jobs etc is probably just taking it's toll a little.

Tank

Quote from: Claireliontamer on October 17, 2015, 09:30:39 AM
Quote from: BooksCatsEtc on October 17, 2015, 04:28:35 AM
Quote from: Claireliontamer on October 16, 2015, 11:28:54 PM
I thought I'd got better at managing the lowest of my moods but this week is proving otherwise.

Bad week or bad mood?

Just really down at the moment.  Like I say, I thought I'd manage to get on top of it.  I guess moving house, jobs etc is probably just taking it's toll a little.
Both are stressful. Doing both at the same time is bound to take its toll.
If religions were TV channels atheism is turning the TV off.
"Religion is a culture of faith; science is a culture of doubt." ― Richard P. Feynman
'It is said that your life flashes before your eyes just before you die. That is true, it's called Life.' - Terry Pratchett
Remember, your inability to grasp science is not a valid argument against it.

OldGit

Quote from: TankBoth are stressful. Doing both at the same time is bound to take its toll.
Right.  Hang on in there and it'll begin to settle down.  Think of Scamp and possibly that American bloke, what's his name.