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Quote from: Dark Lightning on March 28, 2026, 02:02:51 PMPeople coming into the country are subject to having their social media on their phones checked. People have been turned away from entry into the US if TSA didn't like what they saw. If I ever leave the country, I'll have to leave my cell phone at home.

That would probably be a good idea.

Man, this is looking more and more like a third rate reality show where the clowns have taken over the circus and we can't change the channel.

#84

Laid Back Lounge / Re: Doesn't fit under any othe...

Last post by xSilverPhinx - March 28, 2026, 02:03:14 PM

Quote from: Icarus on March 15, 2026, 04:19:17 AMSilver, if you are out there, this one is for you,,,,,,,,,,,,,

https://imgur.com/gallery/googly-eyes-make-everything-better-w3Su3Li

Love it!

*googles where can I find massive googly eyes*

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Politics / Re: Duke of Bullshit: "The" Do...

Last post by Dark Lightning - March 28, 2026, 02:02:51 PM

People coming into the country are subject to having their social media on their phones checked. People have been turned away from entry into the US if TSA didn't like what they saw. If I ever leave the country, I'll have to leave my cell phone at home.

#86

Social Issues and Causes / Re: Perceived Rudeness in a Se...

Last post by xSilverPhinx - March 28, 2026, 01:57:01 PM

Quote from: Recusant on March 27, 2026, 07:16:33 AM I know your particular focus of study doesn't involve language/perceived rudeness per se, xSilverPhinx. It was specifically your experience living in an Anglophone nation that interested me. Your fluency in English and inquiry into idioms probably would make you an outlier in regard to the phenomenon described in the paper, but still I was curious about your perspective on it. Thank you!

Speaking of the paper, I waded through some, skimmed some. A lot of talk before they finally get around to describing the study itself.

As for the helpful fellow, I think your reaction was warranted. In a case like that, being thoughtful includes using your words to convey your good intentions rather than expecting your beneficiary to just guess what you're up to.

The personal space thing varies even in the US. When I was a youngster I met a young woman from the Gulf Coast of Mississippi. I thought she stood close because she was attracted to me, but later I realized that it was actually just a variation in culture.

Heh

I have quite a few culture shock stories from my time in Houston. Like when I would have to walk somewhere and cross someone on the street they would almost always say "hello" as they passed me. The first time a random stranger did that surprised me, but soon I was also greeting random strangers on the street as I walked past them.

Brazil, like the US, is a big country and there are variations in politeness and culture here as well, but that sort of thing is not something I've experienced in different regions here.

As for the biker guy, he didn't serm to be the talkative type. Just responded with "ma'am" and went on his way.

In general I thought people there were very polite, which contrasts with the stereotypical image of Americans here. But that's probably mostly due to bratty, entitled tourists.

#87

Politics / Re: Duke of Bullshit: "The" Do...

Last post by xSilverPhinx - March 28, 2026, 01:37:05 PM

Quote from: Dark Lightning on March 26, 2026, 02:38:09 PMI keep hoping he chokes on a Big Mac. Shooting him would make him a martyr. He's a plague on the entire planet.

Same. The world would certainly be a better place with Trump 6 feet under.

Whelp, there probably goes my chances of renewing my US visa. For someone who likes to shout "freedom" at the sun and moon Trump certainly does not like to be on the receiving end of criticism.

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Social Issues and Causes / Re: Perceived Rudeness in a Se...

Last post by Icarus - March 28, 2026, 01:32:37 AM

We have some instantly recognizable differences in locution right here in the U.S. Not merely accent, but manners of speaking.

Way back in the day, this Florida kid was assigned to military duty in Connecticut. When I arrived there I connected with some of the local citizens, particularly motorcycle riders. Damn !!. My first impression was that every one I met was angry. Their tone of voice along with a tendency toward bluntness was a put off for me. Over time I learned that these people were not angry and had no intention of insulting someone without cause. It was simply their manner of speaking.

Over time I learned that these folks mean to be friendly, helpful, and kind. The way they speak does not sound friendly until you begin to understand them. I made some lifelong friends there in Merry Olde New England. Matter of fact I married one of those damned Yankees and never ever regretted that choice.

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Social Issues and Causes / Re: Perceived Rudeness in a Se...

Last post by Recusant - March 27, 2026, 07:16:33 AM

I know your particular focus of study doesn't involve language/perceived rudeness per se, xSilverPhinx. It was specifically your experience living in an Anglophone nation that interested me. Your fluency in English and inquiry into idioms probably would make you an outlier in regard to the phenomenon described in the paper, but still I was curious about your perspective on it. Thank you!

Speaking of the paper, I waded through some, skimmed some. A lot of talk before they finally get around to describing the study itself.

As for the helpful fellow, I think your reaction was warranted. In a case like that, being thoughtful includes using your words to convey your good intentions rather than expecting your beneficiary to just guess what you're up to.

The personal space thing varies even in the US. When I was a youngster I met a young woman from the Gulf Coast of Mississippi. I thought she stood close because she was attracted to me, but later I realized that it was actually just a variation in culture.

#90

Politics / Re: Duke of Bullshit: "The" Do...

Last post by Dark Lightning - March 26, 2026, 02:38:09 PM

I keep hoping he chokes on a Big Mac. Shooting him would make him a martyr. He's a plague on the entire planet.

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