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Started by Firebird, July 30, 2012, 03:48:26 PM

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Firebird

Apparently Jim Crow still lives on in spirit

QuoteHurt. Devastated. Crushed.

Those are words an African-American couple used to describe how they felt when they were forced to change the venue of their wedding because of their race.

"Because of the fact that we were black, some of the members of the congregation had got upset and decided that no black couple would ever be married at that church," Charles Wilson told CNN on Sunday night.

"All we wanted to do in the eyes of God was to be man and wife in a church that we thought we felt loved. What was wrong with that?"
Black couple denied wedding in church

Charles and Te'Andrea Wilson had planned to marry this month at the First Baptist Church of Crystal Springs in Mississippi, but were asked at the last minute to move.

Their pastor, Stan Weatherford, made the request on behalf of some congregants who didn't want to see the couple married there, according to CNN affiliate WLBT. He performed the ceremony at a nearby church.

"This was, had not, had never been done here before so it was setting a new (precedent) and there were those who reacted to that," Weatherford told WLBT.

"I didn't want to have a controversy within the church, and I didn't want a controversy to affect the wedding of Charles and Te' Andrea. I wanted to make sure their wedding day was a special day," he reportedly said.

On Sunday, some church members reacted to news of the wedding with surprise, many hadn't known what happened to the Wilsons until they heard about it on the news, and offered apologies.

"I would say I'm sorry this happened and would you forgive the people who caused it? Because we're gonna try to," Bob Mack told WLBT.

Talking about the group that opposed the wedding he said: "We hope we can straighten them out, you know, get them to understand what Christianity is all about because they have some misconceptions about it."

But for Charles and Te'Andrea Wilson, support from the church now might be too little, too late.

"I had dreams of having my wedding the way I wanted it, and I also dreamed of having it at the church and unfortunately, it didn't happen," Te'Andrea Wilson told CNN.

Her husband said if there was a time to "step up and be Christ-like," it was before their wedding. Hindsight is 20/20.

"If it was such a minority of people, why didn't the majority stand up and say, 'in God's house we don't do this?'" said Charles Wilson.
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Theta Sigma

Absolutely unforgivable that something like this can still happen... let alone that it ever did.
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Crow

That pastor is a twat. "I didn't want to have a controversy within the church" so he was happy to espouse vile racism and cause a ruckus that will easily dwarf what would have happened within the church if he did allow the wedding to take place, an amoeba looks like a genius in comparison to that retard.
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xSilverPhinx

Quote from: Crow on July 30, 2012, 04:34:45 PM
That pastor is a twat. "I didn't want to have a controversy within the church" so he was happy to espouse vile racism and cause a ruckus that will easily dwarf what would have happened within the church if he did allow the wedding to take place, an amoeba looks like a genius in comparison to that retard.

Moral courage isn't for everyone.
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En_Route

Quote from: xSilverPhinx on July 30, 2012, 04:53:53 PM
Quote from: Crow on July 30, 2012, 04:34:45 PM
That pastor is a twat. "I didn't want to have a controversy within the church" so he was happy to espouse vile racism and cause a ruckus that will easily dwarf what would have happened within the church if he did allow the wedding to take place, an amoeba looks like a genius in comparison to that retard.

Moral courage isn't for everyone.

You can count me out for one.
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OldGit

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Ali


En_Route

Quote from: Ali on July 30, 2012, 08:23:12 PM
Jerks.

Just because the Wilsons are Baptists, it seems unduly harsh to call them jerks.
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Ali

Quote from: En_Route on July 30, 2012, 08:51:44 PM
Quote from: Ali on July 30, 2012, 08:23:12 PM
Jerks.

Just because the Wilsons are Baptists, it seems unduly harsh to call them jerks.

:P  I thought about calling the racist church "pigs" or "monsters" specifically to antogonize you.  Aren't you glad I settled for "jerks?"  :D

En_Route

Quote from: Ali on July 30, 2012, 09:04:05 PM
Quote from: En_Route on July 30, 2012, 08:51:44 PM
Quote from: Ali on July 30, 2012, 08:23:12 PM
Jerks.

Just because the Wilsons are Baptists, it seems unduly harsh to call them jerks.

:P  I thought about calling the racist church "pigs" or "monsters" specifically to antogonize you.  Aren't you glad I settled for "jerks?"  :D

It is gratifying to observe that my civilising influence is having an effect.
Some ideas are so stupid only an intellectual could believe them (Orwell).

markmcdaniel

Quote from: xSilverPhinx on July 30, 2012, 04:53:53 PM
Quote from: Crow on July 30, 2012, 04:34:45 PM
That pastor is a twat. "I didn't want to have a controversy within the church" so he was happy to espouse vile racism and cause a ruckus that will easily dwarf what would have happened within the church if he did allow the wedding to take place, an amoeba looks like a genius in comparison to that retard.

Moral courage isn't for everyone.
It is good to see that Christian love and charity is alive and well. Frankly I thought stupidity of this magnitude was stamped out decades ago even in the back waters of Mississippi.
It appears to me (whether rightly or wrongly) that direct arguments against Christianity and theism produce hardly any effect on the public; and freedom of thought is best promoted by the gradual illumination of men's minds which follows from the advance of science - Charles Darwin

I cannot imagine a God who rewards and punishes the object of his creation, whose purposes are modeled after our own -- a god, in short, who is but a reflection of human frailty. Neither can I believe that the individual survives the death of his body, although feeble souls harbor such thoughts through fear or ridiculous egotism. - Albert Einstein

Religion is a by product of fear. For much of human history, it may have been a necessary evil, but why was it more evil than necessary? Isn't killing people in the name of God a pretty good definition of insanity. - Arther C. Clarke

Faith means not wanting to know what is true. - Friedrich Nietzsche

Sandra Craft

Quote from: xSilverPhinx on July 30, 2012, 04:53:53 PM
Quote from: Crow on July 30, 2012, 04:34:45 PM
That pastor is a twat. "I didn't want to have a controversy within the church" so he was happy to espouse vile racism and cause a ruckus that will easily dwarf what would have happened within the church if he did allow the wedding to take place, an amoeba looks like a genius in comparison to that retard.

Moral courage isn't for everyone.

True enough in general, but in a preacher?  I'd have thought moral courage would be part of the job description.  In any case, that preacher needs to look for a new line of work -- telephone repair, perhaps.
Sandy

  

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fester30

One of my friends said jokingly "You're going to hell lol" on one of my Facebook posts.  I replied "There are worse places... like Mississippi."

OldGit


markmcdaniel

Quote from: OldGit on July 31, 2012, 03:11:25 PM
How do they get on with gay black atheists?
News flash--- Entire state of Mississippi believed to have died of apoplexy! Officials think a BLACK GAY ATHEIST IS CAUSE.
It appears to me (whether rightly or wrongly) that direct arguments against Christianity and theism produce hardly any effect on the public; and freedom of thought is best promoted by the gradual illumination of men's minds which follows from the advance of science - Charles Darwin

I cannot imagine a God who rewards and punishes the object of his creation, whose purposes are modeled after our own -- a god, in short, who is but a reflection of human frailty. Neither can I believe that the individual survives the death of his body, although feeble souls harbor such thoughts through fear or ridiculous egotism. - Albert Einstein

Religion is a by product of fear. For much of human history, it may have been a necessary evil, but why was it more evil than necessary? Isn't killing people in the name of God a pretty good definition of insanity. - Arther C. Clarke

Faith means not wanting to know what is true. - Friedrich Nietzsche