New member: happy to be here~

[bicycle]

I agree, my point is just that you make it seem like all gay people are either in the closet or not in the closet, but I know of men who have become attracted to men, gotten a sex change, and then became attracted to women, only to want to be men again. I don't see why someone would have to go through all that trouble just to be happy, unless they had some issues...

[Sweetdeath]

I really don't want to feel offended. I hope you didn't just suggest that people "become" gay, because they have mental issues.

You are twisting my words. I am only saying that being gay is not a choice.
You can't just wake up and decide to be gay. You just discover it, as part of your entire self; who you are.

[bicycle]

I don't mean to make you feel disrespected. Personally, I have mental issues myself, don't we all?

[Sweetdeath]

Yes ;; we all go through crazy, good, and bad experiences. That's what makes us human.

[bicycle]

Totally, I just want to grow which is kinda why I joined this board.