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Title: Near death experiences?
Post by: JoeBobSmith on March 24, 2011, 08:03:07 AM
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Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: xSilverPhinx on March 24, 2011, 08:26:20 AM
I never wonder 'why' I didn't die today or the 'whys' of life, as I go along I find out, but with no external purpose to it. And purpose is what you make of it, the main purpose being to live of course.  

Many times I'm thankful for things, but I'm not thankful to anyone...just thankful. It's sort of a bodiless feeling. Saying that I'm thankful to the universe just doesn't make sense.  :hmm:

I've never had an acute near death experience.
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: fester30 on March 24, 2011, 11:41:07 AM
Some research points to near death experiences (NDE) being something that occurs in the frontal lobe of the brain as someone is near death.  There are many ideas, such as oxygen depletion or extra carbon dioxide or just the altering of concentrations of chemicals in the brain.  Here is a link to one possibility in a news story:
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/MindMoodNews/study-links-carbon-dioxide-death-experiences/story?id=10324769

Whatever causes it, it's probably nothing more than a lucid dream.  Lucid dreams feel extremely real.  So real that some people develop mental illness because they find difficulty differentiating between the real world and the dream world (I know, sounds very Inception).  When I was on Chantix to quit smoking, I had lucid dreams.  This was caused by what Chantix does to the frontal lobe.  There were times I'd wake up and wonder if I was maybe still sleeping.  There were times while sleeping I thought I was awake, so I'd go to the men's room in my dream, and wind up wetting the bed... I'm 33!  My wife made fun of me, of course.

Often, dreams involve subjects that have been on our mind lately.  A Christian expects to see God or Jesus when they die, so it's possible that expectation leads to seeing them in a lucid dream during an NDE.  

I don't think about an afterlife, or what's next.  That also doesn't take away from the life I'm living, in fact, it adds to my current life.  It doesn't matter to me if I die tomorrow.  It matters to the people I leave behind.  Therefore, instead of dwelling on why I'm still alive, I make sure that the people I love understand that I love them.
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: iSok on March 24, 2011, 04:19:01 PM
Quote from: "fester30"Some research points to near death experiences (NDE) being something that occurs in the frontal lobe of the brain as someone is near death.  There are many ideas, such as oxygen depletion or extra carbon dioxide or just the altering of concentrations of chemicals in the brain.  Here is a link to one possibility in a news story:
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/MindMoodNews/study-links-carbon-dioxide-death-experiences/story?id=10324769

Whatever causes it, it's probably nothing more than a lucid dream.  Lucid dreams feel extremely real.  So real that some people develop mental illness because they find difficulty differentiating between the real world and the dream world (I know, sounds very Inception).  When I was on Chantix to quit smoking, I had lucid dreams.  This was caused by what Chantix does to the frontal lobe.  There were times I'd wake up and wonder if I was maybe still sleeping.  There were times while sleeping I thought I was awake, so I'd go to the men's room in my dream, and wind up wetting the bed... I'm 33!  My wife made fun of me, of course.

Often, dreams involve subjects that have been on our mind lately.  A Christian expects to see God or Jesus when they die, so it's possible that expectation leads to seeing them in a lucid dream during an NDE.  

I don't think about an afterlife, or what's next.  That also doesn't take away from the life I'm living, in fact, it adds to my current life.  It doesn't matter to me if I die tomorrow.  It matters to the people I leave behind.  Therefore, instead of dwelling on why I'm still alive, I make sure that the people I love understand that I love them.

Hmmm....Yeah dreams are pretty mysterious, we can only guess why that happens.
But, can anyone explain the following?:


A guy grows up as a Christian, leaves his faith because he does not understand the problem of evil at a young age and becomes an atheist.
In the processing of turning an atheist, he gets the following dream:

"It was a tiny room with no furniture, and there was nothing on its grayish-white walls.
Its only adornment was the predominantly red-and-white patterned carpet that covered the floor.
There was a small window, like a basement window, above and facing us, filling the room with bril­liant light.
We were in rows; I was in the third. There were only men, no women, and all of us were sitting on our heels and facing the direction of the window.

It felt foreign. I recognized no one. Perhaps I was in another country. We bowed down uniformly, our faces to the floor.
It was serene and quiet, as if all sound had been turned off. All at once, we sat back on our heels.
As I looked ahead, I realized that we were being led by someone in front who was off to my left, in the middle, below the window. He stood alone.
 I only had the briefest glance at his back. He was wearing a long white gown, and on his head was a white scarf with a red design. And that is when I would awaken."


This dream would repeat often in the next 10 years of his life, but he would never understand it.
After some while he becomes a Muslim. And one day after his difficult process of accepting Islam, he's in the mosque, attending a prayer.

"We bowed down in prostration with our faces on the red-and-white carpet. It was serene and quiet, as if the sound had been turned off.
And then we sat back on our heels again. As I looked ahead, I could see Ghassan, off to my left, in the middle, below the window that was flooding the room with light.
He was alone, without a row. He was wearing a long white gown and on his head was a white scarf with a red design.
"The dream! I screamed inwardly. The dream exactly! I had forgotten it completely, and now I was stunned and frightened.
Am I dreaming? I wondered. Will I awaken? I tried to focus on what was happening to determine whether I was asleep.
A rush of cold flowed through my body, making me shudder. My God, this is real! Then the coldness subsided, succeeded by gentle warmth radiating from within.
Tears welled up in my eyes."


Can science explain this?

Name of the person is Dr. Jeffrey Lang, in case you want to google him.
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: Davin on March 24, 2011, 05:12:03 PM
Did science verify that it even happened?
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: iSok on March 24, 2011, 05:25:05 PM
Quote from: "Davin"Did science verify that it even happened?

I think it's a rethorical question you ask.
Was 'science' there when he had the dream for the first time? No.

Was it coincidence, a lie or a sign from God?

Here's the guy.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qVQ1BWqjTjs
You can draw your own conclusion.
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: fester30 on March 24, 2011, 05:58:10 PM
Is there any way to confirm he actually had these dreams?  This is some guy talking.  Benny Hinn is an evangelical that travels the world and fills huge arenas with supporters.  He preaches Christianity and practices "faith healing."  He has been shown to be a fraud (it was either ABC, CBS, or NBC that did the expose... can't remember which).  Just because someone says they had a dream, or says they were healed doesn't make it the truth.  I heard a story that a guy said he had an out of body experience and went to hell where he was warned that he better change his ways or he'd be back.  Charles Dickens wrote a story about a guy named Scrooge who was visited by four ghosts and changed his ways concerning Christmas.  There are stories everywhere, and these accounts of dreams and healing and such sound an awful lot like stories that can be found in the fiction section of any library.

Interesting that he writes books on his conversion to Islam and makes money off of it.  Seems like he has something to gain from his stories, just like the Lutz family did in the Amityville horror house, an admitted hoax, but one that made them money.  He's a smart guy.  How are we to know he's not making it all up to make some cash?
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: Stevil on March 24, 2011, 06:06:10 PM
These types of stories are a dime a dozen causing people to convert to every religion under the sun. All I can say is that people cannot be trusted they are often devious and have motives.
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: iSok on March 24, 2011, 06:31:00 PM
Quote from: "fester30"Is there any way to confirm he actually had these dreams?  This is some guy talking.  Benny Hinn is an evangelical that travels the world and fills huge arenas with supporters.  He preaches Christianity and practices "faith healing."  He has been shown to be a fraud (it was either ABC, CBS, or NBC that did the expose... can't remember which).  Just because someone says they had a dream, or says they were healed doesn't make it the truth.  I heard a story that a guy said he had an out of body experience and went to hell where he was warned that he better change his ways or he'd be back.  Charles Dickens wrote a story about a guy named Scrooge who was visited by four ghosts and changed his ways concerning Christmas.  There are stories everywhere, and these accounts of dreams and healing and such sound an awful lot like stories that can be found in the fiction section of any library.

Interesting that he writes books on his conversion to Islam and makes money off of it.  Seems like he has something to gain from his stories, just like the Lutz family did in the Amityville horror house, an admitted hoax, but one that made them money.  He's a smart guy.  How are we to know he's not making it all up to make some cash?

Certainly there are some people that claim a lot.
But the story of this guy is quite different.

1. He's not interested in converting someone, he doesn't care about what other people think.
2. He changed his way of life drasticly. He is a professor of mathematics at San Francisco university, I think he has plenty of ways to make money.
    Writing three books in almost 30 years on this topic (he converted at age 28) is very slim to make any money.
    Nonetheless he married a saudi woman years after he converted and is living the full 'muslim life'. Believe me..praying 5 times a day, fasting a whole month and quit drinking and many
    other restrictions takes a lot of effort for someone new.

All this, to write 3 books in 30 years..to make profit....It doesn't sound reasonable too me.
watch the video I posted, he seems a very honest and nice guy.

That he is a liar is impossible if we just take a look at this.
Leaves only two options.

Coincidence or a sign from God.
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: Davin on March 24, 2011, 07:05:39 PM
Quote from: "iSok"
Quote from: "Davin"Did science verify that it even happened?

I think it's a rethorical question you ask.
Was 'science' there when he had the dream for the first time? No.

Was it coincidence, a lie or a sign from God?

Here's the guy.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qVQ1BWqjTjs
You can draw your own conclusion.
If science can't verify that it even happened, why would you need a scientific explanation?

There's no scientific explanation for why unicorns can be trapped in the ocean by a 100ft tall bull either.
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: iSok on March 24, 2011, 07:25:17 PM
Quote from: "Davin"
Quote from: "iSok"
Quote from: "Davin"Did science verify that it even happened?

I think it's a rethorical question you ask.
Was 'science' there when he had the dream for the first time? No.

Was it coincidence, a lie or a sign from God?

Here's the guy.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qVQ1BWqjTjs
You can draw your own conclusion.
If science can't verify that it even happened, why would you need a scientific explanation?

There's no scientific explanation for why unicorns can be trapped in the ocean by a 100ft tall bull either.


Lets assume this happened.
Can science explain that?

(This is a rethorical question if you didn't see)
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: Davin on March 24, 2011, 07:26:43 PM
Quote from: "iSok"
Quote from: "Davin"
Quote from: "iSok"I think it's a rethorical question you ask.
Was 'science' there when he had the dream for the first time? No.

Was it coincidence, a lie or a sign from God?

Here's the guy.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qVQ1BWqjTjs
You can draw your own conclusion.
If science can't verify that it even happened, why would you need a scientific explanation?

There's no scientific explanation for why unicorns can be trapped in the ocean by a 100ft tall bull either.


Lets assume this happened.
Can science explain that?

(This is a rethorical question if you didn't see)
Yes.
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: iSok on March 24, 2011, 07:41:18 PM
Quote from: "Davin"
Quote from: "iSok"Lets assume this happened.
Can science explain that?

(This is a rethorical question if you didn't see)
Yes.

1. The guy was desperate to find a new religion, so while he turned towards atheism, his mind played tricks on him by interprenting different thoughts (things he has seen were melted to a central thought.
    Once he was praying, somehow his mind mingled all those thoughts into a realistic picture just to make him at ease?

2. He is confused with another dream, because he so desperately wants it, it looks as if it was the same dream.

Both points are laughable in my opinion.

Or can you add a third?
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: Davin on March 24, 2011, 07:52:34 PM
Quote from: "iSok"Or can you add a third?
How did science verify that he had the dreams?

How the dreams happened might be very important in describing what happened and how it happened.
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: fester30 on March 24, 2011, 07:59:42 PM
He claims to have dreamed praying in this mosque before it happened.  I do have some problems with his claims.  For one, I was a lucid dreamer when I was on medication.  The dreams were so lucid at times I would wake up and wonder if I had just gone into a dream or woke up from reality instead of to reality.  It was really crazy.  Yet even as lucid as these dreams were, I never once woke up and remembered details anywhere near the details he says he remembered.  He may have had some cloudy dreams similar to his prayer experience, and after he had his experience, he retroactively filled in the memories of those dreams with his actual experience.  It could also have been simple deja vu, which can be explained as well.

I accept that I cannot prove God doesn't exist, therefore it is possible that his dreams were signs from Allah.  However, based on that logic, you also have to accept that you cannot prove that Hinduism isn't the real, true religion.  You cannot prove reincarnation doesn't happen.  Therefore, it is also possible that he was a Muslim in his life immediately previous to his life as Dr. Lang, and as a Muslim had prayed in that mosque or a similar one, and that his past life experience was returning to him in dreams.  This could also explain why he was pulled to Islam, and why he was pulled toward that mosque.

Also, your argument about how he changed his life does not prove that he isn't lying.  I had a preacher lie to me last month, telling me that I had just popped into his head while I was deployed one day, and it was spiritual in meaning.  I called him out on his Miss Cleo Psychic Friends Network tactic, and he admitted he hadn't thought of me.  He had no money to gain from it.  Some people make things up not for money or to convert people, but just for small measures of fame or importance or to legitimize their life in the eyes of others.
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: iSok on March 24, 2011, 08:04:10 PM
Quote from: "Davin"
Quote from: "iSok"Or can you add a third?
How did science verify that he had the dreams?

How the dreams happened might be very important in describing what happened and how it happened.

Science was not there, when it happened, as I said before.
The guy does not seem to be a liar, he would be a nut if he did it for money (3 books in 30 years for changing your life is insane...)
I can understand very well why he wants to write about it.

The same dream repeated for 10 years, untill he became a Muslim and realised what it meant.
He was an atheist, while he was dreaming the same dream several times.
This is all the info, I can give you and have.

Can you give a reasonable third option?

What astonished me is the exact setting, detailed dream versus detailed reality. (if we assume he's speaking the truth).



Quote from: "fester30"He claims to have dreamed praying in this mosque before it happened.  I do have some problems with his claims.  For one, I was a lucid dreamer when I was on medication.  The dreams were so lucid at times I would wake up and wonder if I had just gone into a dream or woke up from reality instead of to reality.  It was really crazy.  Yet even as lucid as these dreams were, I never once woke up and remembered details anywhere near the details he says he remembered.  He may have had some cloudy dreams similar to his prayer experience, and after he had his experience, he retroactively filled in the memories of those dreams with his actual experience.  It could also have been simple deja vu, which can be explained as well.

I accept that I cannot prove God doesn't exist, therefore it is possible that his dreams were signs from Allah.  However, based on that logic, you also have to accept that you cannot prove that Hinduism isn't the real, true religion.  You cannot prove reincarnation doesn't happen.  Therefore, it is also possible that he was a Muslim in his life immediately previous to his life as Dr. Lang, and as a Muslim had prayed in that mosque or a similar one, and that his past life experience was returning to him in dreams.  This could also explain why he was pulled to Islam, and why he was pulled toward that mosque.

I can go into a very detailed explanation here Fester why God would allow other people to go into Hinduism or other religions except Islam.
But my primary purpose here is: There's more than materialism.

Quote from: "fester30"Also, your argument about how he changed his life does not prove that he isn't lying.  I had a preacher lie to me last month, telling me that I had just popped into his head while I was deployed one day, and it was spiritual in meaning.  I called him out on his Miss Cleo Psychic Friends Network tactic, and he admitted he hadn't thought of me.  He had no money to gain from it.  Some people make things up not for money or to convert people, but just for small measures of fame or importance or to legitimize their life in the eyes of others.

Of course, we can't objectively determine whether the guy is speaking the truth or not. It's our personal choice.
But, if I watch his interviews, his way of talking. He seems to be a honest person.
In his book he tells he had a lot of trouble to accept Islam, the only pillar he had, was his dream.

For someone who is out on fame, he would study Islam and become a scholar.
And then he would certainly get a lot of fame. But he is rather a humble looking person, and acts also this way.
He continued teaching mathematics at university after he converted.

So I believe he tells the truth. For you it may be different, I very well understand.
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: fester30 on March 24, 2011, 08:35:37 PM
Quote from: "iSok"The guy does not seem to be a liar, he would be a nut if he did it for money (3 books in 30 years for changing your life is insane...)

The best con men don't seem to be liars, either.  Also, while he may not be doing anything for the money, he may also be getting appearance and speaking fees.  Or maybe he believes every word of his story, but like I said, there are other explanations.

Quote from: "iSok"What astonished me is the exact setting, detailed dream versus detailed reality. (if we assume he's speaking the truth).

And this was my point, that his memory of the dream seemed way too detailed to be an actual memory of an actual dream, but rather he filled in details after-the-fact to fit that day in the mosque.

Quote from: "iSokI can go into a very detailed explanation here Fester why God would allow other people to go into Hinduism or other religions except Islam.
But my primary purpose here is: There's more than materialism.

You missed my point on the Hinduism.  I wasn't talking about why God would allow people to go into Hinduism.  I was saying that if it's possible he received a message from God, then it is also equally possible that instead of a message from God, he was experiencing flashbacks and spiritual residue from his reincarnation, as he was a Muslim in his previous life.  In other words, anything we cannot disprove must be a possibility.

[quote="iSok"]Of course, we can't objectively determine whether the guy is speaking the truth or not. It's our personal choice.
But, if I watch his interviews, his way of talking. He seems to be a honest person.
In his book he tells he had a lot of trouble to accept Islam, the only pillar he had, was his dream.

For someone who is out on fame, he would study Islam and become a scholar.
And then he would certainly get a lot of fame. But he is rather a humble looking person, and acts also this way.
He continued teaching mathematics at university after he converted.

So I believe he tells the truth. For you it may be different, I very well understand.[/quote]

This is another good point.  Just like religion, this guy's story must be taken on faith, as there is no way to confirm it actually happened.  You will choose to believe it because it suits your purpose in continuing and affirming your belief system, while I'll choose to ignore it because I don't find anything plausible about the entire story.
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: iSok on March 24, 2011, 08:47:28 PM
Quote from: "fester30"
Quote from: "iSok"The guy does not seem to be a liar, he would be a nut if he did it for money (3 books in 30 years for changing your life is insane...)

The best con men don't seem to be liars, either.  Also, while he may not be doing anything for the money, he may also be getting appearance and speaking fees.  Or maybe he believes every word of his story, but like I said, there are other explanations.

Quote from: "iSok"What astonished me is the exact setting, detailed dream versus detailed reality. (if we assume he's speaking the truth).

And this was my point, that his memory of the dream seemed way too detailed to be an actual memory of an actual dream, but rather he filled in details after-the-fact to fit that day in the mosque.

Quote from: "iSokI can go into a very detailed explanation here Fester why God would allow other people to go into Hinduism or other religions except Islam.
But my primary purpose here is: There's more than materialism.

You missed my point on the Hinduism.  I wasn't talking about why God would allow people to go into Hinduism.  I was saying that if it's possible he received a message from God, then it is also equally possible that instead of a message from God, he was experiencing flashbacks and spiritual residue from his reincarnation, as he was a Muslim in his previous life.  In other words, anything we cannot disprove must be a possibility.

[quote="iSok"]Of course, we can't objectively determine whether the guy is speaking the truth or not. It's our personal choice.
But, if I watch his interviews, his way of talking. He seems to be a honest person.
In his book he tells he had a lot of trouble to accept Islam, the only pillar he had, was his dream.

For someone who is out on fame, he would study Islam and become a scholar.
And then he would certainly get a lot of fame. But he is rather a humble looking person, and acts also this way.
He continued teaching mathematics at university after he converted.

So I believe he tells the truth. For you it may be different, I very well understand.

This is another good point.  Just like religion, this guy's story must be taken on faith, as there is no way to confirm it actually happened.  You will choose to believe it because it suits your purpose in continuing and affirming your belief system, while I'll choose to ignore it because I don't find anything plausible about the entire story.[/quote]


Fester, the world is filled with idiots who claim a lot of things, many of them are believers.
What many of them claim, I don't believe what they say, because I will always try to find some error in their reasoning, or they might have some sort of problem.
I did exactly the same, when I first heard this guy talking about it.

I can only conclude that he HAS too be honnest, there's no other possible way.
As for his dream, he did not fill in a detailed setting.
He dreamed of the exact setting as he came across (the dream repeated many times, so reasonable he knows it well)
I read his book and in his book he admitted he had a lot of problems with converting, not with Islam. But with the Muslim community today.
The only thing that gave him strength was his dream.

It either is a coincidence or a sign from God. I believe in the second.
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: fester30 on March 24, 2011, 09:02:56 PM
Quote from: "iSok"Fester, the world is filled with idiots who claim a lot of things, many of them are believers.
What many of them claim, I don't believe what they say, because I will always try to find some error in their reasoning, or they might have some sort of problem.
I did exactly the same, when I first heard this guy talking about it.

I can only conclude that he HAS too be honnest, there's no other possible way.
As for his dream, he did not fill in a detailed setting.
He dreamed of the exact setting as he came across (the dream repeated many times, so reasonable he knows it well)
I read his book and in his book he admitted he had a lot of problems with converting, not with Islam. But with the Muslim community today.
The only thing that gave him strength was his dream.

It either is a coincidence or a sign from God. I believe in the second.

Again, you can't claim that it is impossible that he was dishonest.  You are going by what you feel and not by actual evidence, and humans are very bad lie detectors.

You also can't claim that he backfilled the details to fit his real life experience.  You are not him.  You did not have his dreams, you do not have his memories, you are taking his word at face value.  I have had many repeated dreams and can never remember such specific details like colors people were wearing or colors of carpets or window placement.  He may be special, and perhaps there are people that can remember such details in dreams, but it is at least POSSIBLE that he filled in the details of his dreams after the fact.

Also, there are more options than just coincidence or sign from God.  I presented the reincarnation theory (you're Muslim telling an atheist that a Muslim theory is possible... I'm an atheist telling a Muslim that a Hindu theory is possible).  You can't ignore possibilities just because you don't believe them.  I admit that maybe I'm wrong, and if so there's probably a spot in hell with my name on it, and that it's possible he's being honest and actually had these dreams and that the God of Islam was sending him a sign.  Are you willing to admit it's possible that either he's making it up or filling in details or reincarnated or that there could be many other non-Muslim possibilities that don't involve God or at least don't involve the God of Islam?

You mention you don't take at face value many of the crazy things some people claim.  Is it possible you aren't ignoring his account because he just happens to be Muslim and giving an account that supports your belief?  When I was a Christian, I heard of the people who claimed out of body and near death experiences where they went to heaven or hell for a short time and met Jesus or Peter or Satan before going back to their body.  Just because they were preaching a pro-Christian message didn't mean I actually bought into their stories.

If this guy was talking about a dream he had where he was sitting in the third wooden bench and he and everybody else knelt on a step in front of him connected to the back of the second wooden bench in front of him and there was a man in a black robe with a white collar behind a podium speaking and a stained glass window behind him illuminated by the sun outside the building, and one day he found himself kneeling in a church that looked exactly like his dream, and that proved to him that Jesus was God and Christianity was the truth, would you believe him just because he seemed honest and didn't seem to have a reason to lie?  Seems like the same sign from God to some Christians... and there have been plenty of people who have had such experiences.
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: iSok on March 24, 2011, 09:12:13 PM
Quote from: "fester30"
Quote from: "iSok"Fester, the world is filled with idiots who claim a lot of things, many of them are believers.
What many of them claim, I don't believe what they say, because I will always try to find some error in their reasoning, or they might have some sort of problem.
I did exactly the same, when I first heard this guy talking about it.

I can only conclude that he HAS too be honnest, there's no other possible way.
As for his dream, he did not fill in a detailed setting.
He dreamed of the exact setting as he came across (the dream repeated many times, so reasonable he knows it well)
I read his book and in his book he admitted he had a lot of problems with converting, not with Islam. But with the Muslim community today.
The only thing that gave him strength was his dream.

It either is a coincidence or a sign from God. I believe in the second.

Again, you can't claim that it is impossible that he was dishonest.  You are going by what you feel and not by actual evidence, and humans are very bad lie detectors.

You also can't claim that he backfilled the details to fit his real life experience.  You are not him.  You did not have his dreams, you do not have his memories, you are taking his word at face value.  I have had many repeated dreams and can never remember such specific details like colors people were wearing or colors of carpets or window placement.  He may be special, and perhaps there are people that can remember such details in dreams, but it is at least POSSIBLE that he filled in the details of his dreams after the fact.

Also, there are more options than just coincidence or sign from God.  I presented the reincarnation theory (you're Muslim telling an atheist that a Muslim theory is possible... I'm an atheist telling a Muslim that a Hindu theory is possible).  You can't ignore possibilities just because you don't believe them.  I admit that maybe I'm wrong, and if so there's probably a spot in hell with my name on it, and that it's possible he's being honest and actually had these dreams and that the God of Islam was sending him a sign.  Are you willing to admit it's possible that either he's making it up or filling in details or reincarnated or that there could be many other non-Muslim possibilities that don't involve God or at least don't involve the God of Islam?

You mention you don't take at face value many of the crazy things some people claim.  Is it possible you aren't ignoring his account because he just happens to be Muslim and giving an account that supports your belief?  When I was a Christian, I heard of the people who claimed out of body and near death experiences where they went to heaven or hell for a short time and met Jesus or Peter or Satan before going back to their body.  Just because they were preaching a pro-Christian message didn't mean I actually bought into their stories.

If this guy was talking about a dream he had where he was sitting in the third wooden bench and he and everybody else knelt on a step in front of him connected to the back of the second wooden bench in front of him and there was a man in a black robe with a white collar behind a podium speaking and a stained glass window behind him illuminated by the sun outside the building, and one day he found himself kneeling in a church that looked exactly like his dream, and that proved to him that Jesus was God and Christianity was the truth, would you believe him just because he seemed honest and didn't seem to have a reason to lie?  Seems like the same sign from God to some Christians... and there have been plenty of people who have had such experiences.

Fester, your point of view is not clear.

You are starting to talk like a creationist.....
Why can't you just say: Could be an aspect of the brain where science has no idea about it. Maybe we can explain this in a couple of years, but not now. (If he's speaking the truth)
There's no shame in saying this. It gets weird when you try to get your way out by making up all sort of scenario's....
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: fester30 on March 24, 2011, 09:26:54 PM
Quote from: "iSok"Fester, your point of view is not clear.

You are starting to talk like a creationist.....
Why can't you just say: Could be an aspect of the brain where science has no idea about it. Maybe we can explain this in a couple of years, but not now. (If he's speaking the truth)
There's no shame in saying this. It gets weird when you try to get your way out by making up all sort of scenario's....

Well I apologize I can't think of a way to be more clear with my point.  I could just say that there's some aspect of the brain or whatever.  Instead, what I chose to do is present you with comparable possibilities to show that his supposed experiences are as crazy to me and other non-Muslims as the scenerios I outlined would be to you.  My point is I think you are so quick to believe him because you are a Muslim, and his alleged experiences support your ideology.  If he was speaking of dreams coming true and such that supported other ideologies, such as Christianity, Hinduism, or even the Roman or Greek mythologies, I doubt you'd be so quick to lend credence to his stories.

I don't know... is there any way I can better explain this?

Besides, I did outline that there are aspects of the brain that science DOES have an idea about... that psychology has shown happen (filling in details of memory after the fact).  We see this all the time in witness testimony of crime scenes (or even of the plane going into the Pentagon on 9/11).  People fill in missing segments of memory even when they don't realize they are doing it.

http://truthinjustice.org/false-memory.htm
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: Davin on March 24, 2011, 09:35:35 PM
Quote from: "iSok"
Quote from: "Davin"
Quote from: "iSok"Or can you add a third?
How did science verify that he had the dreams?

How the dreams happened might be very important in describing what happened and how it happened.

Science was not there, when it happened, as I said before.
Then why are you asking if science can explain it if there is nothing for science to examine?
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: iSok on March 24, 2011, 09:36:57 PM
Quote from: "fester30"Well I apologize I can't think of a way to be more clear with my point.  I could just say that there's some aspect of the brain or whatever.  Instead, what I chose to do is present you with comparable possibilities to show that his supposed experiences are as crazy to me and other non-Muslims as the scenerios I outlined would be to you.  My point is I think you are so quick to believe him because you are a Muslim, and his alleged experiences support your ideology.  If he was speaking of dreams coming true and such that supported other ideologies, such as Christianity, Hinduism, or even the Roman or Greek mythologies, I doubt you'd be so quick to lend credence to his stories.

I would still believe him. I don't think God would allow everyone to be a Hindu, a Christian or a Muslim.
Diversity is what makes us human. Maybe God's vision is to see us a human beings cooperating, no matter our faith?

I see truth in Islam, a christian might see truth in christianity.
But I will still debate him about his beliefs, and he will debate me. It is what makes me a Muslim and it's what makes him a Christian.

Qur'an [49:13] - "Human beings, We created you all from a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes so that you may know one another. Verily the noblest of you in the sight of God is the most God-fearing of you. Surely God is All-Knowing, All-Aware."


Quote from: "fester30"I don't know... is there any way I can better explain this?

Besides, I did outline that there are aspects of the brain that science DOES have an idea about... that psychology has shown happen (filling in details of memory after the fact).  We see this all the time in witness testimony of crime scenes (or even of the plane going into the Pentagon on 9/11).  People fill in missing segments of memory even when they don't realize they are doing it.

http://truthinjustice.org/false-memory.htm

I am aware of this Fester, and might be an explanation, but it's only guessing.
Psychology today is not really advanced, we don't know how the brain works.
My uncle is an M.D. and he told me that patients who suffer from psychological problems usually are pumped with different medecines...till one of the prescription actually works.
So psychology is a lot of guess-work.

Nonetheless, I find his dream amazing.
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: JoeBobSmith on March 25, 2011, 07:00:16 AM
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Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: The Magic Pudding on March 25, 2011, 08:52:44 AM
Quote from: "JoeBobSmith"YOU GUYS HAVE DERAILED MY TOPIC SO F-ING BAD :angel3:  :angel3:  :angel3:  :angel3:  :angel3:  :angel3:  :angel3:
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: fester30 on March 25, 2011, 12:50:29 PM
Quote from: "JoeBobSmith"fester, I was speaking of near death as in almost being killed not losing consciousness

YOU GUYS HAVE DERAILED MY TOPIC SO F-ING BAD :hissyfit:

Do you mean like I was driving the other day and some semi truck almost t-boned my car?  Normally when people talk about near death experiences, they mean that they lost consciousness, and even did not have a pulse for several seconds to several minutes, and saw some sort of vision while they were "dead."
Title: Re: Near death experiences?
Post by: DirtyLeo on March 25, 2011, 12:58:55 PM
Quote from: "iSok"But, if I watch his interviews, his way of talking. He seems to be a honest person

Once I watched a TV show about serial killers. Believe me, some of them didn't look like they were cold blooded murderers.
Good salespeople seem always honest but they can sell you something that you don't need at all without much remorse.

So, I wouldn't qualify "seeming to be something" as a helpful fact, especially if you are already predisposed to believe in what you're told.

I bet if I find you someone who tells a very similar story about aliens or about Atlantis, you wouldn't be so quick to believe in his/her claims (which are, by the way, much more likely to exist).

Edit: ...oops!.. sorry if I'm contributing to an off topic subject...