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I heard a comedian joking about how he sneezed once and someone said, "bless you", which he stated offended him. It made me start thinking about how often "religious-one-liners" are used by the people I know, and they probably don't realize it. Thank God, thank Heavens, bless you, God bless you, (any combo of the terms)...and on the more humorous side I hear; Holy Jeez, Holy (anything), "Jesus,Mary,andJoseph!", etc..

Now, I know most of it just comes off as funny, but I'm wondering if any of those things actually do offend an athiest like the comedian said? I don't imagine athiests are easily offended by every single religious term, but is it something that people should be more careful of?

Nope. I use "religious" one-liners all the time in my speech, although they usually border on the offensive side -- like, "my god", and "goddamn".

the origins of "bless you" is from back when people thought demons were trying to attack someone who sneezed at the sneeze made the vulnerable to being possessed (or something stupid like that).

So, really, saying bless you is a nod back to when religion was especially out of touch with reality...I don't see why that should offend an atheist.

The above said, I typically just don't say anything.

I figured as much- the guy did use it in a comedy set. Thanks for quick responses.

Quote from: "LegendarySandwich"Nope. I use "religious" one-liners all the time in my speech, although they usually border on the offensive side -- like, "my god", and "goddamn".

If god makes me kick my toe he cops much worse than that.
You can say gazoontite which apparently is good health, but it's probably best just to duck for cover until it's all over.

Those who "bless you" me, usually get a Sieg Heil as reply, or some similar remark they can ponder... For no other reason than because I can.

Quote from: "Asmodean"Those who "bless you" me, usually get a Sieg Heil as reply, or some similar remark they can ponder... For no other reason than because I can.

But you don't have a nose.

Quote from: "The Magic Pudding"But you don't have a nose.

Sneezing with your left eye. That, my friend, is the true art.  

I believe some people say gesundheit.
I do say "herregud" (=oh my god) sometimes, but that's about it.

Totally related:

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Quote from: "Being_Brave"I heard a comedian joking about how he sneezed once and someone said, "bless you", which he stated offended him. It made me start thinking about how often "religious-one-liners" are used by the people I know, and they probably don't realize it. Thank God, thank Heavens, bless you, God bless you, (any combo of the terms)...and on the more humorous side I hear; Holy Jeez, Holy (anything), "Jesus,Mary,andJoseph!", etc..

Now, I know most of it just comes off as funny, but I'm wondering if any of those things actually do offend an athiest like the comedian said? I don't imagine athiests are easily offended by every single religious term, but is it something that people should be more careful of?

I don't think you have anything to be concerned with. If you want to say god bless you to someone who doesn't believe in god just go ahead and say it. They'll either appreciate your intentions or they'll use it as an excuse to have a go at you and if they do that's their problem. Don't let other people's aggression affect you, just be yourself.

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Quote from: "Being_Brave"I heard a comedian joking about how he sneezed once and someone said, "bless you", which he stated offended him. It made me start thinking about how often "religious-one-liners" are used by the people I know, and they probably don't realize it. Thank God, thank Heavens, bless you, God bless you, (any combo of the terms)...and on the more humorous side I hear; Holy Jeez, Holy (anything), "Jesus,Mary,andJoseph!", etc..

Now, I know most of it just comes off as funny, but I'm wondering if any of those things actually do offend an athiest like the comedian said? I don't imagine athiests are easily offended by every single religious term, but is it something that people should be more careful of?

I don't think you have anything to be concerned with. If you want to say god bless you to someone who doesn't believe in god just go ahead and say it. They'll either appreciate your intentions or they'll use it as an excuse to have a go at you and if they do that's their problem. Don't let other people's aggression affect you, just be yourself.

I agree pilchardo.  I take it in the spirit in which it was given.  I usually say 'Bless you' when someone sneezes.  It's habit.  I doubt anyone takes it seriously.

Yeah,  when says bless you, have a blessed day, may god bless you, etc. I say thank you as the meaning of those phrases is steeped in good wishes to another so why get upset over them?

Use the Seinfeld response to a sneeze. "You're soooo good looking."

I don't get offended, I just get annoyed when, after having said it, they repeat it again louder, trying to solicit an undeserved "thank you." Or worse, when someone (who may not even be religious or theistic themselves), without a hint of irony, looks at me all hurt and dejected when I don't say it to them, or go as far as to ask me, "aren't you going to say 'bless you'?" To them, I look straight in their eye and shout, "BLESSED ART THOU IN THE NAME OF ME; GO FORTH AND SNEEZE NO MORE!!" Never been asked twice by the same person.  

Quote from: "McQ"Use the Seinfeld response to a sneeze. "You're soooo good looking."

Quote from: "elliebean"To them, I look straight in their eye and shout, "BLESSED ART THOU IN THE NAME OF ME; GO FORTH AND SNEEZE NO MORE!!" Never been asked twice by the same person.  lol  lol

Do what I do and you'll never hear it again from those who are normally around you...

"Do it again!  Do it again!"  

I say "Bless You" from time to time, automatically. If I think about it first, I'll say "Salud" instead, which is also what I say (instead of "Amen") at the end of dinner table prayers at my grandmother's house.

Other 'religious' things I'm guilty of saying: "oh my god!" "good lord!" and "jesus f*cking christ!" also, not sure if these count "holy sh*t/f*ck!" and "for f*ck's sake!"

 

Being a southerner, religious one-liners are littered all throughout my speech - unintentionally of course, but still - littered. It's just a part of the lingo down here. None of it offends me, because they're all just figments of speech. People say them without thinking about it. I have no plans to change my speech patterns just because I'm no longer religious. 1. It would take a lot of work and concentration on my part and 2. I'm just not that driven to want to accomplish something like that.

Anyone remember who that comedian was that was talking about when he and his brother were kids, and they would always get in trouble? And when they did, their father would say "Dammit!! JESus CHRIST!!" So for the longest times the 2 boys thought their names were "Dammit" and "Jesus Christ". Was that one of Bill Cosby's routines? I can't remember...

Ya'll have a blessed day now, ya hear!  

Quote from: "terranus"Anyone remember who that comedian was that was talking about when he and his brother were kids, and they would always get in trouble? And when they did, their father would say "Dammit!! JESus CHRIST!!" So for the longest times the 2 boys thought their names were "Dammit" and "Jesus Christ". Was that one of Bill Cosby's routines? I can't remember...

That's him! you win a dancing banana!  
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I like actually kinda like it.  I only deconverted a few months ago so I'm still very entertained by the various inflections one can put on "My god!" and variants.  It's so much better than "gosh".

QuoteThat's him! you win a dancing banana!

Hooray! I do have some memory cells left in my brain! And here I thought Moses (a.k.a. Vodka) had already led them all out into the promised land (a.k.a. oblivion).