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Title: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: curiosityandthecat on September 08, 2009, 03:29:33 PM
:upset:  :upset:  :upset:  :upset:

Here's a good reason to stay the hell out of Kentucky (as if you needed another one).

QuoteLOUISVILLE â€" A mother is angry about a trip led by the head football coach at Breckinridge County High School. The coach took about 20 players on a school bus late last month to his church, where nearly half of them â€" including her son â€" were baptized.

Michelle Ammons said her 16-year-old son was baptized without her knowledge and consent, and she is upset that a public school bus was used to take players to a church service â€" and that the school district's superintendent was there and did not object.

"Nobody should push their faith on anybody else," said Ammons, whose son, Robert Coffey, said Coach Scott Mooney told him and other players that the Aug. 26 outing would include only a motivational speaker and a free steak dinner.

http://bit.ly/bu27L (http://bit.ly/bu27L)

Forgive my language, but WHAT THE FUCK.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Ultima22689 on September 08, 2009, 05:20:48 PM
This is why religion is dangerous, it might not be dangerous on it's own but when religion becomes massive like Christianity and Islam is stupid yet self righteous people believe in it and do stupid crap like this. This sort of thing sickens me and I would sue someone into the ground if that happened to my kid. (if I had one anyway)

What is this world coming to? Why is it so hard for people to recognize how unspecial and dangerous their religion is?
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Will on September 08, 2009, 06:18:32 PM
We should develop an unbaptism ceremony for people new to atheism. It would be a nice way to celebrate the end of a person's journey to free-thinking and to piss off people like those mentioned in the OP.

Maybe what we can do is have someone get their head wet, and then dry it off with a towel that has the scarlet A on it? Then we can have cake. Or we can have someone read the silly parts of his or her religious text. Then we can have cake. Or we can have friends and family each say a short statement about how proud we are or how we also made it. Then we can have cake.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Ultima22689 on September 08, 2009, 06:20:25 PM
Quote from: "Will"We should develop an unbaptism ceremony for people new to atheism. It would be a nice way to celebrate the end of a person's journey to free-thinking and to piss off people like those mentioned in the OP.

Maybe what we can do is have someone get their head wet, and then dry it off with a towel that has the scarlet A on it? Then we can have cake. Or we can have someone read the silly parts of his or her religious text. Then we can have cake. Or we can have friends and family each say a short statement about how proud we are or how we also made it. Then we can have cake.

This would be win. I wish I had an Atheist family, they're all hardcore bible thumpers. Ironically enough, i'm the only one going to college, go figure.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: curiosityandthecat on September 08, 2009, 06:26:33 PM
Quote from: "Will"Then we can have cake.
(Obligatory) The cake is a lie.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: andrewclunn on September 08, 2009, 06:30:02 PM
Quote from: "Ultima22689"This is why religion is dangerous, it might not be dangerous on it's own but when religion becomes massive like Christianity and Islam is stupid yet self righteous people believe in it and do stupid crap like this. This sort of thing sickens me and I would sue someone into the ground if that happened to my kid. (if I had one anyway)

What is this world coming to? Why is it so hard for people to recognize how unspecial and dangerous their religion is?

More like this is the problem with public education.  Whatever ideology the teacher has, they feel that passing it on to their students is an added gift that they can give.  So thanks to public education, religion (like herpes) becomes the 'gift' that keeps on giving.

[youtube:2d20e6lc]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LUASiDg-kg4[/youtube:2d20e6lc]
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Ultima22689 on September 08, 2009, 08:11:58 PM
Heh, nice, I love me some Pink Floyd, oddly enough I only actually listened to Pink Floyd a week ago and i've been jamming ever since.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Reginus on September 09, 2009, 12:32:35 AM
Quote from: "Will"We should develop an unbaptism ceremony for people new to atheism. It would be a nice way to celebrate the end of a person's journey to free-thinking and to piss off people like those mentioned in the OP.

Maybe what we can do is have someone get their head wet, and then dry it off with a towel that has the scarlet A on it? Then we can have cake. Or we can have someone read the silly parts of his or her religious text. Then we can have cake. Or we can have friends and family each say a short statement about how proud we are or how we also made it. Then we can have cake.

Nice, that's actualy a really cool idea.  ;)

But yeah, it would definitly piss off A LOT of people.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: andrewclunn on September 09, 2009, 01:00:30 AM
Quote from: "Reginus"
Quote from: "Will"We should develop an unbaptism ceremony for people new to atheism. It would be a nice way to celebrate the end of a person's journey to free-thinking and to piss off people like those mentioned in the OP.

Maybe what we can do is have someone get their head wet, and then dry it off with a towel that has the scarlet A on it? Then we can have cake. Or we can have someone read the silly parts of his or her religious text. Then we can have cake. Or we can have friends and family each say a short statement about how proud we are or how we also made it. Then we can have cake.

Nice, that's actualy a really cool idea.  ;)

But yeah, it would definitly piss off A LOT of people.

Yeah, we'd have to keep it nice
[youtube:yhscl3ex]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wubIeiLs0qM[/youtube:yhscl3ex]

If we did something like this that would not be very "Happy Atheist"
[youtube:yhscl3ex]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRNpUFcP39g[/youtube:yhscl3ex]
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: skurry on September 09, 2009, 02:38:50 AM
I am actually all for the USA splitting in half, Red States and Blue States. Blue just needs the bridge along the north side of the US to complete the separation... Let me think further about this and create a new post regarding it.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: andrewclunn on September 09, 2009, 03:04:57 AM
Quote from: "skurry"I am actually all for the USA splitting in half, Red States and Blue States. Blue just needs the bridge along the north side of the US to complete the separation... Let me think further about this and create a new post regarding it.

Dude, if you do that, I'm going red state, and I wouldn't be the only atheist to do it.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: LoneMateria on September 09, 2009, 03:10:42 AM
Quote from: "andrewclunn"
Quote from: "skurry"I am actually all for the USA splitting in half, Red States and Blue States. Blue just needs the bridge along the north side of the US to complete the separation... Let me think further about this and create a new post regarding it.

Dude, if you do that, I'm going red state, and I wouldn't be the only atheist to do it.

lol yeah you and 6 others j/k.  Why the north?  Its too damn cold.  I <3 my Florida weather, even with the occasional hurricane ^_^.  I'll take hurricanes over snowstorms any day.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: skurry on September 09, 2009, 03:26:34 AM
The bridge to connect the blue states would be in the north, blue still has California and such.

Andrew, I don't care which side you pick, but you have to admit the Red is very much religious and are the ones responsible for the craziness. I'm not an ultra-Dem, I vote Republican many times if I like their views and points. I consider myself individual, but I think that America is split and there is nothing that is going to change that.

I apologize if I have hijackt this thread.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Ultima22689 on September 09, 2009, 03:40:10 AM
Quote from: "skurry"The bridge to connect the blue states would be in the north, blue still has California and such.

Andrew, I don't care which side you pick, but you have to admit the Red is very much religious and are the ones responsible for the craziness. I'm not an ultra-Dem, I vote Republican many times if I like their views and points. I consider myself individual, but I think that America is split and there is nothing that is going to change that.

I apologize if I have hijackt this thread.

Make a new thread dude, this sounds interesting, in fact I've heard a ton of theories from all over the globe that America might crack like that. It seems plausible because how very political it has been getting every year, it only gets worse every year.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: skurry on September 09, 2009, 03:43:47 AM
Done... return to KY Baptism.

BTW, I just started listening to NPR on stream and they just mentioned this story. :-)
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Heretical Rants on September 09, 2009, 04:42:38 AM
Will, you forget:  The cake is a lie.

Tasty, though.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: karadan on September 09, 2009, 11:41:01 AM
Quote from: "Will"We should develop an unbaptism ceremony for people new to atheism. It would be a nice way to celebrate the end of a person's journey to free-thinking and to piss off people like those mentioned in the OP.

Maybe what we can do is have someone get their head wet, and then dry it off with a towel that has the scarlet A on it? Then we can have cake. Or we can have someone read the silly parts of his or her religious text. Then we can have cake. Or we can have friends and family each say a short statement about how proud we are or how we also made it. Then we can have cake.

Hang on. I'm not baptized. Does that mean i don't get cake? :(
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: SSY on September 09, 2009, 03:54:23 PM
If you un-baptize someone, you are bound to have the crazies say " Oh no, no silly towel can get rid of GOD'S righteousness!!!!1111oneone"

You have to go over the top, have the new atheist do something themselves, like piss on their holy text, that's a rejection right there.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Ultima22689 on September 09, 2009, 05:19:52 PM
Quote from: "SSY"If you un-baptize someone, you are bound to have the crazies say " Oh no, no silly towel can get rid of GOD'S righteousness!!!!1111oneone"

You have to go over the top, have the new atheist do something themselves, like piss on their holy text, that's a rejection right there.

I think it would be better if it was done in a subtle manner opposed to outright pissing on the bible or other "holy" text. Literal Bible bashing just makes us atheists look bad.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: LoneMateria on September 09, 2009, 05:53:46 PM
Maybe we can employ an old religious technique, who want to roast some marshmallows over someones holy book?
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Ultima22689 on September 09, 2009, 05:54:36 PM
Quote from: "LoneMateria"Maybe we can employ an old religious technique, who want to roast some marshmallows over someones holy book?

Then we'd be book burning, that's a BAD idea.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: LoneMateria on September 09, 2009, 06:22:40 PM
Quote from: "Ultima22689"
Quote from: "LoneMateria"Maybe we can employ an old religious technique, who want to roast some marshmallows over someones holy book?

Then we'd be book burning, that's a BAD idea.

No, were not trying to stunt knowledge, there are 500 billion copies of the bible we aren't destroying anything.   Were just publicly showing our dissatisfaction with it.  Kinda like flag burning.  MMM i'm getting hungry for smores now.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Ultima22689 on September 09, 2009, 07:41:10 PM
Quote from: "LoneMateria"
Quote from: "Ultima22689"
Quote from: "LoneMateria"Maybe we can employ an old religious technique, who want to roast some marshmallows over someones holy book?

Then we'd be book burning, that's a BAD idea.

No, were not trying to stunt knowledge, there are 500 billion copies of the bible we aren't destroying anything.   Were just publicly showing our dissatisfaction with it.  Kinda like flag burning.  MMM i'm getting hungry for smores now.


hmm, good point.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: andrewclunn on September 09, 2009, 08:00:50 PM
If you're going to go religious style then the first thing would be to write a book in biblical style that explains how the universe REALLY came to be what it is today.  It should also end with someone being visited by God in a dream telling them a secret revelation, that people believed in too much crazy crap for people to actually know what real 'good' is, so God wants people to be atheists.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: LoneMateria on September 09, 2009, 08:21:39 PM
Quote from: "andrewclunn"If you're going to go religious style then the first thing would be to write a book in biblical style that explains how the universe REALLY came to be what it is today.  It should also end with someone being visited by God in a dream telling them a secret revelation, that people believed in too much crazy crap for people to actually know what real 'good' is, so God wants people to be atheists.

Does it have to be written in 17th century Elizabethan English?  Or should it be like the originals and written in a dead language?
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: andrewclunn on September 09, 2009, 08:24:44 PM
Let's do it in the language that needs it the most, Arabic.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Ultima22689 on September 09, 2009, 08:30:46 PM
Quote from: "andrewclunn"Let's do it in the language that needs it the most, Arabic.


lol, this should be done and sold around the world. XD
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: LoneMateria on September 09, 2009, 08:39:52 PM
Whats the point in writing a book like that if the people around you can't read it >.<?  I say do it in modern English, I'll make it easy.  Heres a rough draft.

I woke up this morning like every other morning.  Only today was special.  I realized it was up to me to get rid of superstition in the world like I've seen in my dreams.  I summoned my wife who came with a pen and paper ... just yanking your chain she brought me my laptop.  Pen and paper yeah right.  Then I wrote down the steps needed to make this world a peaceful world.

1: Make sure your actions cause the least amount of suffering possible to others.
2: Think critically before taking action.
3: Never stop trying to learn and strive to believe as few false things as possible.
4: Embrace what is different, our diversity makes us strong, don't waste time hating those who are different.
5: Willful ignorance and superstition are for those who lived in the bronze age, not us.

The End
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: andrewclunn on September 09, 2009, 08:47:11 PM
It's one thing to just say things.  It's another to provide stories that illustrate that illustrate the ideas.  Also, then you have a text, you can quote from and claim that your holy text is superior because it corresponds with science.  Also, there are a lot of tax perks to being a religious organization (at least in the states.)
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: iNow on September 09, 2009, 08:54:22 PM
Quote from: "andrewclunn"If you're going to go religious style then the first thing would be to write a book in biblical style that explains how the universe REALLY came to be what it is today.
One already exists.  It's called "The Bible According to Einstein."

Check it out:  http://www.jupiterscientific.org/science/bae.html (http://www.jupiterscientific.org/science/bae.html)
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: LoneMateria on September 09, 2009, 08:56:42 PM
Quote from: "andrewclunn"It's one thing to just say things.  It's another to provide stories that illustrate that illustrate the ideas.  Also, then you have a text, you can quote from and claim that your holy text is superior because it corresponds with science.  Also, there are a lot of tax perks to being a religious organization (at least in the states.)

You shouldn't need stories to illustrate the ideas.  You always run the risk of conveying the wrong message.  Look at the OT, is it saying listening to god is good?  Or is it saying killing in the name of god good?  Is it saying that knocking up your dead brothers wife is a good thing?  Or that if you don't do it god is a prick and will get you? And so on.

About the tax perks I don't think any religious organization should get a tax perk, especially with the economy the way it is.  Look at the catholic church, the pope lives in a palace of gold, but they need a tax break?  The Mormons in the U.S. is arguably the most wealthy religious group we have with money in the billions of dollars.  Do they need a tax break?  No Fuck them they need to pay taxes like every other business.  Lets use their money and then get everyone out of financial crisis.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: rlrose328 on September 09, 2009, 10:39:34 PM
Fence sitting this one... excuse me while I think in print.  Of course, I would be very pissed if this happened with my son.  I'm the only one who has the right to brainwash him.   ;)

But honestly, the church/coach side said that students had to go forward to be baptised so her son must have gone forward.  Maybe it was peer pressure?  Does that excuse it?  If he was weakwilled enough to follow the crowd, is it the coach's fault?  They also said it's okay because a teacher paid for the gas, but if they took a bus, that is still school district property that was used to transport the students.  Did he lie to his mom by telling her it was a motivational speaker and a steak dinner when other parents said their kids told them it was church?  Knowing his parents have different religions, did he keep it from them for fear they wouldn't allow him to go but he wanted to go because all his friends were going?

So there you have it... the stream of consciousness re: this issue.  I don't think she should sue because it seems her kid had some hand in what happened (lied to/midled her, went up to be baptised himself), but the school didn't have the right to take the kids to a church service in school property without specific permission forms requiring signatures with the exact details of what the event entailed.  It's a tie.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: LoneMateria on September 10, 2009, 12:10:46 AM
Did it say how old the kids were?  I mean it could be iffy if the "kid" is 17.  But if the kid is 14 and got baptized I can see why it would piss off the parents.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: rlrose328 on September 10, 2009, 12:20:08 AM
Quote from: "LoneMateria"Did it say how old the kids were?  I mean it could be iffy if the "kid" is 17.  But if the kid is 14 and got baptized I can see why it would piss off the parents.

The boy whose mom is all pissed of is 16.  The school district said if it were 6 to 7 year olds, they could understand the fuss, but they feel that kids who are 16 to 17 can make up their own mind about if they can attend such an event.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: LoneMateria on September 10, 2009, 01:20:14 AM
Quote from: "rlrose328"
Quote from: "LoneMateria"Did it say how old the kids were?  I mean it could be iffy if the "kid" is 17.  But if the kid is 14 and got baptized I can see why it would piss off the parents.

The boy whose mom is all pissed of is 16.  The school district said if it were 6 to 7 year olds, they could understand the fuss, but they feel that kids who are 16 to 17 can make up their own mind about if they can attend such an event.

Yeah its still an iffy age.  I guess it would have to depend how mature the "child" is.  I'd make a big deal about it if I was a parent too, mostly because the coach is using his authority to push his religious beliefs on kids.  But I don't know if i'd go as far as to sue.  Honestly is it much different then Sargents in the military using their influence on recruits with potential punishment for disobedience?
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Whitney on September 10, 2009, 02:10:59 AM
Quote from: "Will"We should develop an unbaptism ceremony for people new to atheism.

I hear they will be performing debaptism ceremonies at the Texas Freethought Convention.  I have no clue what it involves but it could be really funny if it is actually a ceremony and not just handing someone a certificate of debaptism.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: LoneMateria on September 10, 2009, 02:19:00 AM
Quote from: "Whitney"
Quote from: "Will"We should develop an unbaptism ceremony for people new to atheism.

I hear they will be performing debaptism ceremonies at the Texas Freethought Convention.  I have no clue what it involves but it could be really funny if it is actually a ceremony and not just handing someone a certificate of debaptism.

If there is a ceremony whoever goes should videotape it and throw it on YouTube :D
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: navvelline on September 17, 2009, 11:08:45 PM
Quote from: "Will"We should develop an unbaptism ceremony for people new to atheism. It would be a nice way to celebrate the end of a person's journey to free-thinking and to piss off people like those mentioned in the OP.

Maybe what we can do is have someone get their head wet, and then dry it off with a towel that has the scarlet A on it? Then we can have cake. Or we can have someone read the silly parts of his or her religious text. Then we can have cake. Or we can have friends and family each say a short statement about how proud we are or how we also made it. Then we can have cake.


That reminded me of something I found on the National Secular Society where people could purchase de-baptism certificates.  :P
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Big Mac on September 25, 2009, 03:22:54 PM
Quote from: "rlrose328"
Quote from: "LoneMateria"Did it say how old the kids were?  I mean it could be iffy if the "kid" is 17.  But if the kid is 14 and got baptized I can see why it would piss off the parents.

The boy whose mom is all pissed of is 16.  The school district said if it were 6 to 7 year olds, they could understand the fuss, but they feel that kids who are 16 to 17 can make up their own mind about if they can attend such an event.

Yeah but then they will be up in arms if that kid took  up smoking or got a tattoo. Then they'd say he was too young to understand what he was doing but you can make big life choices such as baptism at that age. Lovely. I'd sue the shit out of all parties involved in it.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: LoneMateria on September 25, 2009, 05:12:55 PM
Quote from: "Big Mac"Yeah but then they will be up in arms if that kid took  up smoking or got a tattoo. Then they'd say he was too young to understand what he was doing but you can make big life choices such as baptism at that age. Lovely. I'd sue the shit out of all parties involved in it.

The kid is at that iffy age.  He is old enough now to decide if he is going to go to college or not.  What degree he is going for which will effect the rest of his life (well at least a good chunk of his life).  The kid is old enough to drive a car (at least here) which is the #1 killer in America.  He is old enough to do all these major things.  What makes religion different?  Most evangelical christians are "born-again" before the age of 13.

I'm not saying that what happened was right.  The way it was put in the article it seems as if the coach did it behind the parents back.  However he shouldn't have sole blame, though some peer pressure MAY have been involved it was the kids decision in the end.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Big Mac on September 25, 2009, 05:52:12 PM
Quote from: "LoneMateria"
Quote from: "Big Mac"Yeah but then they will be up in arms if that kid took  up smoking or got a tattoo. Then they'd say he was too young to understand what he was doing but you can make big life choices such as baptism at that age. Lovely. I'd sue the shit out of all parties involved in it.

The kid is at that iffy age.  He is old enough now to decide if he is going to go to college or not.  What degree he is going for which will effect the rest of his life (well at least a good chunk of his life).  The kid is old enough to drive a car (at least here) which is the #1 killer in America.  He is old enough to do all these major things.  What makes religion different?  Most evangelical christians are "born-again" before the age of 13.

I'm not saying that what happened was right.  The way it was put in the article it seems as if the coach did it behind the parents back.  However he shouldn't have sole blame, though some peer pressure MAY have been involved it was the kids decision in the end.

Kids are not really capable of making the right choice because their brains are still developing. I know I used an extreme example but I believe if you are given those kinds of responsibilities to make good choices you are equally allowed to make "bad" ones as long as you aren't going around hurting others. If you can drive, enlist in the military (technically at 17 with parental consent), etc. then let kids graduate at 16 and live on their own.

Otherwise the school is being arbitrary and merely trying to cover their ass.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: LoneMateria on September 25, 2009, 06:22:16 PM
Quote from: "Big Mac"Kids are not really capable of making the right choice because their brains are still developing. I know I used an extreme example but I believe if you are given those kinds of responsibilities to make good choices you are equally allowed to make "bad" ones as long as you aren't going around hurting others. If you can drive, enlist in the military (technically at 17 with parental consent), etc. then let kids graduate at 16 and live on their own.

Otherwise the school is being arbitrary and merely trying to cover their ass.

Our brains develop until we are 24.  I'm 22 so am I incapable of making the right choice?  Is there really a cut and dry age which a kid becomes mature?  Of course not.  Choices are part of the human experience.  We all make good choices and bad ones (both of which we don't always know if we are).  If a kid can demonstrate he is mature then why should we stop him from driving, smoking, joining religion, enlisting in the military, getting married and so on?  We may not agree with their decisions but do we have the right to stop them from making it?

Also if I was the school i'd cover my ass too.  Schools always get sued of this crap whether its justified or not.  Cover ass would be number 1 on my list if I was them.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Big Mac on September 25, 2009, 06:29:36 PM
Quote from: "LoneMateria"
Quote from: "Big Mac"Kids are not really capable of making the right choice because their brains are still developing. I know I used an extreme example but I believe if you are given those kinds of responsibilities to make good choices you are equally allowed to make "bad" ones as long as you aren't going around hurting others. If you can drive, enlist in the military (technically at 17 with parental consent), etc. then let kids graduate at 16 and live on their own.

Otherwise the school is being arbitrary and merely trying to cover their ass.

Our brains develop until we are 24.  I'm 22 so am I incapable of making the right choice?  Is there really a cut and dry age which a kid becomes mature?  Of course not.  Choices are part of the human experience.  We all make good choices and bad ones (both of which we don't always know if we are).  If a kid can demonstrate he is mature then why should we stop him from driving, smoking, joining religion, enlisting in the military, getting married and so on?  We may not agree with their decisions but do we have the right to stop them from making it?

Also if I was the school i'd cover my ass too.  Schools always get sued of this crap whether its justified or not.  Cover ass would be number 1 on my list if I was them.

I'm 23, buckeroo. I consider myself fairly level headed for the most part. I joke around but I do not impulsively jump into something stupid. I know there is no cut and dry age. I'm just annoyed by this blatant bullshit the school district is dancing with. The proper way would be to reprimand the coach for this action. Not do mental gymnastics and try to ignore the obvious fact one of their faculty did something blatantly illegal.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: LoneMateria on September 25, 2009, 06:53:17 PM
Reprimanding the coach won't stop the school from getting sued nor will it "un-baptize" the kid.  I'm sure they've reprimanded the coach.  I'm pretty sure they will fire him if this costs them money.  I'm annoyed that this happened as well, but putting sole responsibility on the coach and the school makes me even more annoyed.  The kid participated and i'm sure the parents inadvertently had influence here.  I'd be pissed if this happened in any form to someone much younger but the kid is 16 and hes at that transitional age between adolescent and adult.  At some point he has to take responsibility for his actions and the parents will have no say in it.

To be fair I understand it from the parents perspective whether or not they were very religious.  I'd probably go so far as to say the coach is using his authority to press this belief onto his players.  But at some point that kid was a willing participant and unless he comes forward saying that they forced this on him and he didn't want this then I don't think there is much of a case especially against the school.  What could they do if this coach has no prior problems?  You can't discriminate against teachers based on their religion.  This is just one of those times where everything is grey and its a little bit of everyones fault.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Big Mac on September 25, 2009, 07:04:33 PM
Quote from: "LoneMateria"Reprimanding the coach won't stop the school from getting sued nor will it "un-baptize" the kid.  I'm sure they've reprimanded the coach.  I'm pretty sure they will fire him if this costs them money.  I'm annoyed that this happened as well, but putting sole responsibility on the coach and the school makes me even more annoyed.  The kid participated and i'm sure the parents inadvertently had influence here.  I'd be pissed if this happened in any form to someone much younger but the kid is 16 and hes at that transitional age between adolescent and adult.  At some point he has to take responsibility for his actions and the parents will have no say in it.

To be fair I understand it from the parents perspective whether or not they were very religious.  I'd probably go so far as to say the coach is using his authority to press this belief onto his players.  But at some point that kid was a willing participant and unless he comes forward saying that they forced this on him and he didn't want this then I don't think there is much of a case especially against the school.  What could they do if this coach has no prior problems?  You can't discriminate against teachers based on their religion.  This is just one of those times where everything is grey and its a little bit of everyones fault.

I should have articulated better. By reprimanding the coach severely it would have helped in covering their ass instead of offering a weak "Well, he is 16". In the eyes of the law the boy is still a under his parents guardianship. Until he hits 18 if they want him to be a catholic/jew/muslim/hindu/atheist/scilog he officially is one until he hits the magical 18.

I agree it's not as cut and dry. I know people who are 24 and still live with their parents and barely pass their classes at a community college. I know kids who are 15 and fully capable of making grown up decisions that the former example would whine about.

I don't disagree with your assertion about the transitional age, however the law doesn't really see it that way. He's still not legally capable of making major life decisions like marriage, alcohol use, voting, etc. Why should this baptism be any different? Religious choices are serious matters, not something taken lightly.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: LoneMateria on September 25, 2009, 07:17:18 PM
Quote from: "Big Mac"I should have articulated better. By reprimanding the coach severely it would have helped in covering their ass instead of offering a weak "Well, he is 16". In the eyes of the law the boy is still a under his parents guardianship. Until he hits 18 if they want him to be a catholic/jew/muslim/hindu/atheist/scilog he officially is one until he hits the magical 18.

I agree it's not as cut and dry. I know people who are 24 and still live with their parents and barely pass their classes at a community college. I know kids who are 15 and fully capable of making grown up decisions that the former example would whine about.

I don't disagree with your assertion about the transitional age, however the law doesn't really see it that way. He's still not legally capable of making major life decisions like marriage, alcohol use, voting, etc. Why should this baptism be any different? Religious choices are serious matters, not something taken lightly.

Reprimanding the coach would be a statement saying we know what he did was wrong were sorry we let it happen.  Which i'm sure makes the lawsuit easier on the parents.  I can see why they used that excuse.  That law saying the kid is under you until you are 18 is often times relaxed when the kid is approaching 18.  That law makes a parent responsible for the kids actions until he is 18.  If the kid starts a fire its the parents who take responsibility financially and sometimes legally (like with the wildfires in Cali a few years ago).  Thats not always the case if a 16 year old starts a fire he is usually tried as an adult.

Like I said earlier baptism is no different then smoking, drinking, driving, enlisting in the military, getting married, getting a job, going to college and so on.  If the kid is mature enough his decisions and his actions are his own.  I'd bet the lawyers are trying to get him recognized as an adult.  When crimes happen i've seen 10 year olds get tried as adults (well only a few murders).  I don't think it would be hard to convince a judge that this 16 year old is capable of making decisions for himself.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Big Mac on September 25, 2009, 07:49:04 PM
Quote from: "LoneMateria"Reprimanding the coach would be a statement saying we know what he did was wrong were sorry we let it happen.  Which i'm sure makes the lawsuit easier on the parents.  I can see why they used that excuse.  That law saying the kid is under you until you are 18 is often times relaxed when the kid is approaching 18.  That law makes a parent responsible for the kids actions until he is 18.  If the kid starts a fire its the parents who take responsibility financially and sometimes legally (like with the wildfires in Cali a few years ago).  Thats not always the case if a 16 year old starts a fire he is usually tried as an adult.

Like I said earlier baptism is no different then smoking, drinking, driving, enlisting in the military, getting married, getting a job, going to college and so on.  If the kid is mature enough his decisions and his actions are his own.  I'd bet the lawyers are trying to get him recognized as an adult.  When crimes happen i've seen 10 year olds get tried as adults (well only a few murders).  I don't think it would be hard to convince a judge that this 16 year old is capable of making decisions for himself.

Granted but I'm playing more of an extreme devil's advocate here. Really it breaks down to how well the lawyers for both parties perform. A weak lawyer for either one can easily make them lose even if they are in the right.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: LoneMateria on September 25, 2009, 07:55:35 PM
Very true it all boils down to how well the lawyers can twist the facts in their favor.
Title: Re: Kentucky Students Forecefully Baptized
Post by: Big Mac on September 25, 2009, 08:04:18 PM
Quote from: "LoneMateria"Very true it all boils down to how well the lawyers can twist the facts in their favor.

Isn't the legal system fun, kids? And we haven't even gotten into the fact it's in Kentucky, a state known for its religious vigor! Just wait until the local fundies get involved. FUN FUN FUN FUn FUN!!!!

I can see it now, "Atheist kid saved from hell by heroic godly coach!" or "Atheists mad that souls were saved by coach." or some other whining piece about being persecuted in a country founded on nutjobs like them who tortured and enslaved people for being different. Oh, how I loathe these idiots...