Title: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Kylyssa on March 27, 2008, 06:00:31 PM
Post by: Kylyssa on March 27, 2008, 06:00:31 PM
I've started writing a series of sexual advice articles. This is mostly in response to requests I've received from Internet fans of my erotica writing. Check them out at the links below.
Some of them need to be re-posted but this rss feed leads to about ten of them Kylyssa on Sex and Relationships (http://www.associatedcontent.com/rss/custom_128051_Kylyssa+on+Sex+and+Relationships___41_.xml)
[edited because the website originally hosting the articles disappeared]
Some of them need to be re-posted but this rss feed leads to about ten of them Kylyssa on Sex and Relationships (http://www.associatedcontent.com/rss/custom_128051_Kylyssa+on+Sex+and+Relationships___41_.xml)
[edited because the website originally hosting the articles disappeared]
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Post by: Will on March 27, 2008, 06:25:54 PM
Post by: Will on March 27, 2008, 06:25:54 PM
Not bad.
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Post by: tacoma_kyle on March 28, 2008, 01:58:14 AM
Post by: tacoma_kyle on March 28, 2008, 01:58:14 AM
Good read! (and not too long)
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Post by: McQ on March 28, 2008, 02:50:21 AM
Post by: McQ on March 28, 2008, 02:50:21 AM
:cheers:
See....that's why I said I was a fan of your writing! Good, common sense sex advice, with no need to blush about them.
Well done!
See....that's why I said I was a fan of your writing! Good, common sense sex advice, with no need to blush about them.
Well done!
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Post by: SteveS on March 28, 2008, 01:57:16 PM
Post by: SteveS on March 28, 2008, 01:57:16 PM
I concur with the above comments --- keep the presses rolling!
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Post by: Tom62 on March 28, 2008, 05:48:51 PM
Post by: Tom62 on March 28, 2008, 05:48:51 PM
Same with me. That were some very nice tips
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Post by: jrosebud on March 28, 2008, 10:39:53 PM
Post by: jrosebud on March 28, 2008, 10:39:53 PM
I still blush. It's a carryover from my sexually repressed Catholic girl days.
Kudos!
Kudos!
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Post by: Kylyssa on March 30, 2008, 06:31:42 AM
Post by: Kylyssa on March 30, 2008, 06:31:42 AM
broken link
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Post by: MommaSquid on March 31, 2008, 10:44:41 PM
Post by: MommaSquid on March 31, 2008, 10:44:41 PM
You certainly have a way with words, Kylyssa!
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Kylyssa on April 18, 2008, 05:00:33 PM
Post by: Kylyssa on April 18, 2008, 05:00:33 PM
Now answering YOUR sex questions!I'll field your serious questions about sex, sexuality, fetishes, crossdressing, threesomes, polyamory, figging - whatever sexual topic you can think of. (http://www.thisisby.us/index.php/content/please_ask_me_about_sex)
It's been sort of a dry spell as far as usable questions go. I've gotten a number of emails asking questions lately that have been too individual to answer in post format. Now I'm looking for more sex questions to answer. Ask away!
It's been sort of a dry spell as far as usable questions go. I've gotten a number of emails asking questions lately that have been too individual to answer in post format. Now I'm looking for more sex questions to answer. Ask away!
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: McQ on April 18, 2008, 07:24:04 PM
Post by: McQ on April 18, 2008, 07:24:04 PM
Quote from: "Kylyssa"Now answering YOUR sex questions!I'll field your serious questions about sex, sexuality, fetishes, crossdressing, threesomes, polyamory, figging - whatever sexual topic you can think of. (http://www.thisisby.us/index.php/content/please_ask_me_about_sex)
It's been sort of a dry spell as far as usable questions go. I've gotten a number of emails asking questions lately that have been too individual to answer in post format. Now I'm looking for more sex questions to answer. Ask away!
Where do babies come from?
If I can think of any really good and appropriate questions, I'll holler.
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Tom62 on April 21, 2008, 07:38:01 PM
Post by: Tom62 on April 21, 2008, 07:38:01 PM
Hy Kylyssa,
I've got a question for you. My wife and I live far apart. We only see each other once per month or less, but phone each other every day. What kind of tips could you give us to spicy up our telephone calls? I was more thinking increasing the romantic mood than having phone sex (although I must admit that sounds like fun as well).
Cheers,
Tom
I've got a question for you. My wife and I live far apart. We only see each other once per month or less, but phone each other every day. What kind of tips could you give us to spicy up our telephone calls? I was more thinking increasing the romantic mood than having phone sex (although I must admit that sounds like fun as well).
Cheers,
Tom
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Kylyssa on April 22, 2008, 06:57:15 PM
Post by: Kylyssa on April 22, 2008, 06:57:15 PM
Quote from: "Tom62"Hy Kylyssa,
I've got a question for you. My wife and I live far apart. We only see each other once per month or less, but phone each other every day. What kind of tips could you give us to spicy up our telephone calls? I was more thinking increasing the romantic mood than having phone sex (although I must admit that sounds like fun as well).
Cheers,
Tom
You can check out my most recent article at the link below.
Keeping The Intimacy In Your Long Distance Relationship: tips for LDR lovers (http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/729179/how_to_keep_intimacy_alive_in_your.html)
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Tom62 on April 22, 2008, 08:04:16 PM
Post by: Tom62 on April 22, 2008, 08:04:16 PM
Thanks for the wonderful and practical tips !!!
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Kylyssa on May 18, 2008, 09:02:35 PM
Post by: Kylyssa on May 18, 2008, 09:02:35 PM
broken link
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: OldGit on June 20, 2008, 01:03:35 PM
Post by: OldGit on June 20, 2008, 01:03:35 PM
One thing really puzzles me about all this -
What is a 'popsicle'?
What is a 'popsicle'?
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Kylyssa on June 20, 2008, 05:31:36 PM
Post by: Kylyssa on June 20, 2008, 05:31:36 PM
Quote from: "OldGit"One thing really puzzles me about all this -
What is a 'popsicle'?
It's a frozen treat, usually fruit flavored and rather phallic in shape. Here's a nice photo of a green tea popsicle. (http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/c/c9/Green_tea_popsicle.jpg&imgrefurl=http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/Image:Green_tea_popsicle.jpg&h=600&w=800&sz=84&hl=en&start=67&um=1&tbnid=4R63bW2ow2j5sM:&tbnh=107&tbnw=143&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dpopsicle%26start%3D60%26ndsp%3D20%26um%3D1%26hl%3Den%26client%3Dfirefox-a%26rls%3Dorg.mozilla:en-US:official%26sa%3DN)
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: OldGit on June 21, 2008, 10:11:20 AM
Post by: OldGit on June 21, 2008, 10:11:20 AM
OK, thanks, now I understand everything you said. :banna:
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Kylyssa on December 29, 2008, 04:32:26 AM
Post by: Kylyssa on December 29, 2008, 04:32:26 AM
So here's my latest "sex tip" -
How to Introduce Your Partner to the Use of Sex Toys (http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1343168/how_to_introduce_your_partner_to_the.html?cat=41)
How to Introduce Your Partner to the Use of Sex Toys (http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1343168/how_to_introduce_your_partner_to_the.html?cat=41)
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: wazzz on December 29, 2008, 08:09:57 AM
Post by: wazzz on December 29, 2008, 08:09:57 AM
nicely done :D
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: DennisK on December 29, 2008, 07:28:31 PM
Post by: DennisK on December 29, 2008, 07:28:31 PM
Great job Kylyssa! It's difficult to find quality guidance in the area of sex as there is so much crap out there. I just wish I had this information 20 years ago. Keep it up.
Oh, forgot to ask. Is this how I should position my tongue during cunnilingus? > > > > > > > >
Oh, forgot to ask. Is this how I should position my tongue during cunnilingus? > > > > > > > >
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Wechtlein Uns on December 30, 2008, 04:50:16 PM
Post by: Wechtlein Uns on December 30, 2008, 04:50:16 PM
God, I'm a horrible lover. :devil:
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: curiosityandthecat on December 30, 2008, 07:04:59 PM
Post by: curiosityandthecat on December 30, 2008, 07:04:59 PM
Quote from: "Wechtlein Uns"God, I'm a horrible lover. :devil:
http://www.southparkstudios.com/episodes/166179
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Sophus on December 31, 2008, 04:14:04 AM
Post by: Sophus on December 31, 2008, 04:14:04 AM
For Wechtlein Uns or anyone else who may find this useful: There is such a thing as asexuality.
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: SSY on January 01, 2009, 09:22:02 PM
Post by: SSY on January 01, 2009, 09:22:02 PM
Quote from: "Wechtlein Uns"God, I'm a horrible lover. :devil:
This man speaks the truth, once you done a suspended, scatological 9 way midget rimming gangbang, clad in full leather gimpsuits and gasmasks, a BJ is kind of tame.
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Kylyssa on January 02, 2009, 02:42:55 AM
Post by: Kylyssa on January 02, 2009, 02:42:55 AM
And now for yet another, not my best for certain but it's written in response to a sweet young lady who wrote me with some concerns.
Don't Worry About Sexual Inexperience (http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1353719/dont_worry_about_sexual_inexperience.html?cat=41)
Don't Worry About Sexual Inexperience (http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1353719/dont_worry_about_sexual_inexperience.html?cat=41)
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Kylyssa on February 01, 2009, 05:41:06 PM
Post by: Kylyssa on February 01, 2009, 05:41:06 PM
And for the latest in this series - Women's Kegel Exercises for Better Sex and Stronger Orgasms (http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1435068/womens_kegel_exercises_for_better_sex.html?cat=5)
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Kylyssa on February 04, 2009, 02:37:08 PM
Post by: Kylyssa on February 04, 2009, 02:37:08 PM
Followed by - [strike:1fffqka4]G-Spot Orgasms Made Easier[/strike:1fffqka4] - no longer available at that location.
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: oldschooldoc on February 04, 2009, 10:48:56 PM
Post by: oldschooldoc on February 04, 2009, 10:48:56 PM
Quote from: "Wechtlein Uns"God, I'm a horrible lover. :devil:
Quote from: "SSY"This man speaks the truth, once you done a suspended, scatological 9 way midget rimming gangbang, clad in full leather gimpsuits and gasmasks, a BJ is kind of tame.
Wow...just...wow. You guys are funny...(psst, where do you get your porn?)
Kylyssa, you are so very knowledgeable on this stuff. You never cease to amaze me!!
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Kylyssa on February 05, 2009, 01:08:57 AM
Post by: Kylyssa on February 05, 2009, 01:08:57 AM
Bloody hell! They removed the last one as too lascivious. As I recall, I used no slang whatsoever. It was just a dry description (pun intended) of how to have an ejaculatory female orgasm. Well, my slangy but no pay version of the article is up at http://www.barebackmag.com (http://www.barebackmag.com)
Apparently people can explain anal sex and how to give better blowjobs (using the word blowjob) on the other site but anything in depth on the G-Spot is a no no.
Apparently people can explain anal sex and how to give better blowjobs (using the word blowjob) on the other site but anything in depth on the G-Spot is a no no.
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: curiosityandthecat on February 05, 2009, 02:36:34 AM
Post by: curiosityandthecat on February 05, 2009, 02:36:34 AM
Quote from: "oldschooldoc"Wow...just...wow. You guys are funny...(psst, where do you get your porn?)
One word: Germany.
(https://www.happyatheistforum.com/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fimages28.fotki.com%2Fv1032%2Fphotos%2F8%2F892548%2F6116196%2Foh_snap-vi.gif&hash=9a1448d5e819d223250fc379a8cd2ae93bed2aeb)
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Tom62 on February 05, 2009, 06:41:12 AM
Post by: Tom62 on February 05, 2009, 06:41:12 AM
Quote from: "Kylyssa"Bloody hell! They removed the last one as too lascivious. As I recall, I used no slang whatsoever. It was just a dry description (pun intended) of how to have an ejaculatory female orgasm. Well, my slangy but no pay version of the article is up at http://www.barebackmag.com (http://www.barebackmag.com)I'm glad that I read your article before they removed it. I just wished that who ever designed :brick:
Apparently people can explain anal sex and how to give better blowjobs (using the word blowjob) on the other site but anything in depth on the G-Spot is a no no.
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Kylyssa on February 05, 2009, 03:04:32 PM
Post by: Kylyssa on February 05, 2009, 03:04:32 PM
Quote from: "Tom62"Quote from: "Kylyssa"Bloody hell! They removed the last one as too lascivious. As I recall, I used no slang whatsoever. It was just a dry description (pun intended) of how to have an ejaculatory female orgasm. Well, my slangy but no pay version of the article is up at http://www.barebackmag.com (http://www.barebackmag.com)I'm glad that I read your article before they removed it. I just wished that who ever designed :brick:
Apparently people can explain anal sex and how to give better blowjobs (using the word blowjob) on the other site but anything in depth on the G-Spot is a no no.
What makes it even more frustrating is that like arousal of any type it also depends upon mood and relaxation. Any time you try something new, the relaxation level is not ideal.
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Kylyssa on February 28, 2009, 06:11:49 PM
Post by: Kylyssa on February 28, 2009, 06:11:49 PM
And now - Ten Sex Tips to Help You Become a Better Lover (http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1510892/ten_great_sex_tips_to_help_you_become.html?cat=41)
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: newblueradio on March 02, 2009, 11:46:13 PM
Post by: newblueradio on March 02, 2009, 11:46:13 PM
I didn't read the whole thread (I'm really bad at that, forgive me), so am curious what happened to all the articles? Went to click them, and they're all gone. 
I like that you are fielding questions regarding threesomes and polyamory. That's a subject that's near and dear to me, and I think there needs to be more atheist-friendly polyamorists out there pushing this subject towards the mainstream, instead of letting the religious polygamists damage the multi-partner relationship frontier.
I like that you are fielding questions regarding threesomes and polyamory. That's a subject that's near and dear to me, and I think there needs to be more atheist-friendly polyamorists out there pushing this subject towards the mainstream, instead of letting the religious polygamists damage the multi-partner relationship frontier.
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Kylyssa on March 02, 2009, 11:56:03 PM
Post by: Kylyssa on March 02, 2009, 11:56:03 PM
Quote from: "newblueradio"I didn't read the whole thread (I'm really bad at that, forgive me), so am curious what happened to all the articles? Went to click them, and they're all gone.
I like that you are fielding questions regarding threesomes and polyamory. That's a subject that's near and dear to me, and I think there needs to be more atheist-friendly polyamorists out there pushing this subject towards the mainstream, instead of letting the religious polygamists damage the multi-partner relationship frontier.
Oh, dear. That one site, thisisby.us, went under so those articles can't be accessed. I'll have to post different links.
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Kylyssa on March 03, 2009, 12:13:04 AM
Post by: Kylyssa on March 03, 2009, 12:13:04 AM
Well, this rss feed leads to ten of them - Kylyssa on Sex and Relationships (http://www.associatedcontent.com/rss/custom_128051_Kylyssa+on+Sex____sex.xml)
I'll need to snag links to the ones in Bare Back Magazine and elsewhere, though.
I'll need to snag links to the ones in Bare Back Magazine and elsewhere, though.
Title: Re: Kylyssa's Sex Tips
Post by: Kylyssa on March 06, 2009, 05:08:29 AM
Post by: Kylyssa on March 06, 2009, 05:08:29 AM
Bloody hell! They've taken half of them down! Some of them have been up for six months and read by thousands of viewers and NOW they're taking them down for being obscene?
This kind of jazz is why I'm so passionate about bringing sex into the mainstream. We're doing people a disservice by making sex "dirty" and locking away all information about healthy and enjoyable sex behind a wall of prudery. If every child were given reassurance that masturbation is fine and taught about pleasurable safer sex, we would probably have a lot less teen STD's and teen pregnancies.
In my mind, sex is the rubbing together of body parts with few ethical attachments except in regard to possible resultant children or STD's. It's an arbitrary thing to say that sex is something not to be spoken about - one could make up the same rules about shaking hands. It's like the arbitrary nipple rule - male nipples aren't obscene, yet female nipples are. It's nuts.
This kind of jazz is why I'm so passionate about bringing sex into the mainstream. We're doing people a disservice by making sex "dirty" and locking away all information about healthy and enjoyable sex behind a wall of prudery. If every child were given reassurance that masturbation is fine and taught about pleasurable safer sex, we would probably have a lot less teen STD's and teen pregnancies.
In my mind, sex is the rubbing together of body parts with few ethical attachments except in regard to possible resultant children or STD's. It's an arbitrary thing to say that sex is something not to be spoken about - one could make up the same rules about shaking hands. It's like the arbitrary nipple rule - male nipples aren't obscene, yet female nipples are. It's nuts.
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Post by: maestroanth on March 06, 2009, 05:13:50 AM
Post by: maestroanth on March 06, 2009, 05:13:50 AM
Quote from: "jrosebud"I still blush. It's a carryover from my sexually repressed Catholic girl days.
Kudos!
Ooo...Catholic girl....so innocent. Just b/c I knew you were catholic makes me wanna do you. Especially in that doofy costume, lol.