I’m just so tired. I feel like I’ve been through an emotional wringer this year and I just want it to stop. I know it’s just stuff but a lot of it was my stuff that I had collected for when I could finally move out on my own.

It's totally understandable that you feel that way, you put effort and money into collecting things for your own place. It's as if it's progress towards a goal -- moving out -- and now maybe you feel backtracked. Even so, losing your stuff won't destroy your plans of getting your own place, it might only take a little longer to do so. Or not, who knows? Maybe you'll catch a break soon and life will get easier. Hang in there.

The truly important thing is you, your family and pets are unscathed.