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Started by Ecurb Noselrub, January 06, 2023, 08:53:37 PM
Quote from: Ecurb Noselrub on January 06, 2023, 08:53:37 PMOn the TNP thread, I asked if TNP had a mental list of things he/she would change in his/her life if he/she could go back. I, for one, do. There are some evil deeds, stupid mistakes, humiliations, slights, insensitivities that I would like to blot out. Of course, as Asmo said, that would change the trajectory of my life, even if ever so slightly. But I think it be for the better. I have sort of a hierarchy of "I wish I had" and "I wish I hadn't" things. Maybe 20-25 or so.I have noticed that I simply cannot forget these things. I have forgiven myself for them, but I cannot forget them. I don't think I am supposed to. They remind me to never do them again, or to avoid certain situations, or to be more wise in my decisions. So, Asmo has a point, even the ugly things can be positive. But a few of them torment me, and I would rather consign them to the bottom of the sea. What is your experience along these lines?
Quote from: Ecurb Noselrub on July 25, 2013, 08:18:52 PMIn Asmo's grey lump, wrath and dark clouds gather force.Luxembourg trembles.
Quote from: No one on January 09, 2023, 08:53:43 AMBirth. Life sucks, and is not worth the effort!